So it has begun. I listened to the blueprint, watched transformations, and watched flawless natural. I just started foundations a little bit today

1/13 [first ever sarge, did so alone]
Well after classes I decided to go downtown. There was one place open for 18+, so i went in

It was a wednesday so it was awfuly empty. The band playing had this one really hot singer..but she was singing the entire time
I walk in and i stand watching the band til they finished their song. after the song, a member of the band asked for requests. some woman gave one and he told her to go to the dance floor and dance. she went, i walked up to her friend and dragged her onto the dance floor with me. The three of us danced a bit, i went over to a table got an elder couple to come join us on the dance floor. Then i gave a hug to these 3 women coming in and told them to come to the dance floor. they didn't come immediately but they came later. then i approached this dude just chilling there and told him to come, tried to even drag him. then his hb8 girlfriend came and i told her to get him to come, instead she came with me. i was dancing with all of them, grabbing their hands spinning them. one of the girls who i hugged tried to teach me some dance moves and whatnot. i was the only guy there in a group of 9 women [i'm 18, the rest were cougars except hb8]. anwyay i had fun, it's something i could laugh about. I had to leave after 13 or so minutes and went back to my dorm because i had work to do.

Results: I realized that I could actually just drag people over to come dance [grab their hands and bring them], and then all of the other women saw me i could easily approach them and bring them [i think my state went up when i thought fuck it and dragged the girl's friend to the floor]. when i got back i think i was in that nimbus state, i still feel it. overall, this night was a great confidence booster.

Cons: I hardly did any talking which is partly where i believe my problems are with pick up [midgame/saying the wrong things at the wrong time/pissing someone off]

i'm more into natural game instead of routines and all of that stuff

Good start.



Keep going at it.

Well done, showed approach anxiety isn't a massive issue for you, which is good. Next time, speak to the women you like the look of, build some rapport, and feedback!

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Dude! Awesome job!
Seriously, that sounded like a way better start to gaming than I or many people have ever had. Sucks that you left so early, if you'd had stuck around then who knows what could have happened. You obviously had massive social proof from dancing in a group of so many people and being the guy making people have a good time. That is awesome! Definitely keep at this, you have incredible potential.

So yeah, you didn't speak to anyone... So what? You were DRAGGING GIRLS ONTO A DANCE FLOOR ON YOUR FIRST NIGHT SARGING. Not many guys can say that.

Future reference: Girl trying to teach you dance moves = Heavy IOI.

get used to that kind of an environment! your gonna do great since you dont seem to be afraid to pull the trigger. But what I suggest is strong inner game. If your inner game is tight, you can say anything and girls will feel the confidence you have. You see girls are more prompt to how you deliver "it". Its not more about the content, focus on the delivery which is best done by mastering your inner game. Your on the right track which is great but just because ur stick point is "What do I have to say", dont focus on outer game too much or you wont be congruent to what you say and how your delivering it.

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