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PostPosted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 4:26 am 
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Hey guys:
The past month I have been focusing on conveying alpha male body language. I never realized how many beta Male habits I had. Recently I have narrowed down on practicing strong eye contact in every conversation.

Today I got the same reaction from two hb's that I had strong eye contact with. I initiated a convo with an hb sitting next to me and gave her very powerful eye contact. It probably lasted about 2-3 seconds (seemed like forever). I focused in on her left eye until I was almost lost in it. She then quickly cast her eyes down and to the side.

Am I intimidating these girls with my eye contact? Should I give eye contact less often or with less intensity? And lastly, When EC is broken with a downward glance is that an IOI or an IOD ?


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It all depends.

If it's too intesne-tone it down by having a more pleasant- facial expression.

Plus the context & enviornment is key.

If you're giving heavy EC to girl tanding alone in the dark some where-it will scare her.

So you should learn to balance this.

Learn to calibrate the EC depending on the enviornment.

Most of all,have a pleaant expression.

If you're chatting & laughing with ppl at a bar and you spot a girl on the other side,you can definitely give her heavy EC(since your facial expression is that of fun & social).

But if you're alone at bar,serious -faced,not being social,the girl will feel intimidated by heavy EC since she cannot gauge whether you're social(safe)or a serial killer(lol).

If the girl lowers her gaze after locking eyes,it doesnt mean IOD.

It could be she's shy.

Plus most women wont lock eyes anyway-they'd turn away or lower gaze eventhough they're attracted.

So work on your EC being more pleasant by having a slight smirk or half smile on your face.,which would lower the intensity or possible- threatening vibe.

Im not good at applying EC at all,but I have he know-how,so maybe others can add to this.

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1. SMILE

2. You are TALKING right?

3. Veer towards the side of caution rather than too creepy if it's in class / closed social circle. Getting flagged as an interaction risk will kill your social value if it spreads around.

4. In a club/bar situation where you don't know anyone, feel free to experiment with seeing where the "creepy" line is and what happens when you go too far. See if you can open a girl just by looking at her with huge sexual eye contact, walking up and just saying hi and immediately begin kino ploughing (massively direct).

5. Not sure what's an IOD? Go into the set and find out. Most eye contact = IOI.

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totally agree with blondguy...

a great big smile! its dead important.. and contagious!

i make eye contact all the time and forget to smile! its wierd..i know it but still forget!

when she smiles back or coyly looks away, go over and say hi or you never will

if you're not comfortable smiling, go for a really over the top, blatently cheesy wink and make her laugh...again..go over and say hi as soon as she laughs

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