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PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:28 pm 
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I discovered the "GAME" book 2 years ago.I started to read learn and use these tactics

After 2 years:

I had my first sex with a girl that i pick up

I dated with 4-5 girls for the first time

I made my first house party fuck

I made my first kiss closes :)

This sounds all good but i still fear from opening

Im good at talking to girls and flirting with them in my social circle.But when it comes to meet a new girl (totally stranger) im afraid from it

Im good at girls with my new social circle

But i cant be like that with my old friends.I cant use my knowledge.I become a pussy with my old friends.I cant do pickup with them
(Cause i wasnt able to talk girls pick up with them in old times)

These are my problems:Opening still hard for me and i cant be comfortable with my old social circle

I want to move on with my new life.I want to reach my goals.I dont want to live my old life but im stucked with this mindset:"Why you cant be comfortable with your old friends?You should be"

What should i do?Everything is going well with my new life but my inner voice is always saying me "go to your old life they were your friends,be succesfull with them"

Im stucked at these points


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:55 pm 
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Stop beating yourself up. Look, its the way you chose to look at what is going on in your life. Instead of being hard on yourself for still have some approach anxietey, why dont you congratulate yourself on the amazing progess you have made. Obviously you have come along way in two years so pat yourself on the back for achieving those goals.

Going forward, make some new goals and create an action plan on how you will achieve them. Bitching and moaning doesn't solve anything but action does.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 3:04 pm 
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Thanks a lot.Im happy with reaching my goals but i cant stop thinking of my old life

When i see people from my past i cant act like a pua.I only have success with new people i meet

Is this a problem ?


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 3:26 pm 
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This is a pretty common problem that A LOT of guys experience. This has more to do with evoloutionary psychology than anything else so you are not alone on this.

Let me ask you, is it really that big a deal? I'd imagine you meet a lot of new people so who cares if you dont wear your PUA persona when you are around old friends. Just conetrate on being fun and charasmatic when youre with your old friends and stop stressing about it. Little by little you will see the changes start to take over and before long you will be your new self all the time.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 3:39 pm 
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Its not a big deal.It shouldnt be a big deal.Im happy with the new life im living and i dont want to return back

So i should fuck my old life this is my new life im improving all the time

Thank you carmo you encouraged me :)

I have lots of goals to reach too

I will improve my hobbies im learning music,dancing etc

I should focus on my new life am i sure?


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 4:06 pm 
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Well that is up to you to answer but it sure seems like you are on the right track. Buidling a better life is self perpetuating and builds momentum. Getting involved with new hobbies and activities as i am sure you have found is great. Before you know it you will wake up one day living a super interesting life that allows you to constantly be meeting women. This is the goal for me at least. The busier i get and the more things im involved with the less "aproaches" i actually have to do since just by living my life i am constantly meeting new women every day.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 13, 2011 5:03 pm 
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1. Everyone gets a bit of AA, no matter how experienced they are. My first couple of approaches every day still make my heart race, but once I get into the groove that all goes away and I just start having fun. Opening is hard, it takes balls. But, you know you can do it, and you prove to yourself that you're a MAN every time you do, completely regardless of the outcome.

2. Everyone falls into old habits when they're around people they've known for ages. You have a subconscious urge to act consistently with your past behaviours in front of people who you've been hanging out with forever. If you feel it's holding you back, hang out with them less, make some new friends, and change and solidify your new super social, fun, flirty persona so it won't revert when you do see your old friends. Or, just cut them out if they're not being a positive influence on your life any more.

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