I assume I should start by saying that I'm new to the whole PUA scene, granted I've known about it for a little over 6 months, but I'm just now getting into it. So anyway, tomorrow is the birthday of a girl I'm interested in (I'd say she's an HB 7 or so), the thing is, we never really talked. I mean there's been small periods of communication, and one particular day where we actually engaged in a full blown 'conversation', but we've never really hit it off. Don't get me wrong it's not like I have no game, she's just not in my usual 'group' so I don't know how to approach her. I would say I suffer a bit form AA, and I haven't done any of the newbie missions yet, but i figured since tomorrows her birthday why not go for it then. So any advice for the approach? or any particular negs for this instance? or should I just go with the natural game I have and ignore my AA? Any advice really would be greatly appreciated.


ALSO! on a side note back when I was very, VERY young (like 3 years old if that). Her older sister and my older sister used to be friends so we aren't completely new to each other. I've already brought this up to start a conversation (Went along the lines of Do you have an older sister? Whats her name? I think she knew my sister etc.) though and that was the day we had our long conversation.

did she invite you to her birthday? or did she even tell you it was her birthday? if not, then it would be kinda stalker-like to approach her saying happy b-day... unles she has a plastic crown on her head to catch everyone's attention lol

you can try starting with a question. usually if there's a question im asking myself, i'll use it as an opener to ask a girl. It's a legit question... so its 100% under the radar
ex: asking for directions (even though this can't be applied here)

or else you can even open one of her friends. That might feel easier. Maybe you have more opportunities to talk with her friend so use it to your advantage. She can then get you into a conversation with your target.

Good call man. I was just thinking about being a nice guy, but I do see how that could easily come off as stalker-ish. And no she's not having a party as of now, the way I found out was she was talking non-stop about to her friends in the class I'm in with her.


Edit: I talked with her for a long time in school, and on the phone today and managed to get a date next week Tuesday. Thanks for the advice.