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PostPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2011 5:44 am 
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Today at the gym i finally talked to a girl i have been trying to talk to for 2 months now. I would always catch her looking back at me but when we would get close or pass by she would look down. On the top of that she always had her ipod on. So i was waiting so that right time to come to say something with out making it weird.
So i finally got to know her today, she actually started a conversation after i came up to her and broke the ice. I though everything went well, so i want to go for the gold and ask her out this weekened if i see her at the gym tomm. My question is should i? or should i wait a bit or should i feel her out a litttle more next time i talk to her. I see this girl almost everyday and i dont want to screw it up. Annnd that she is sooooooo hot i want to play my cards right and get her lol. Let me know what you think.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2011 5:58 am 
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Unless your 100% confident and you're sure you got IOI's i wouldn't ask her directly out on a date (like supper or something fancy) just like coffee or something small. Do you know if she has a bf??

If tomorrow you freeze and/or get nervous to ask her out, i'd start with getting her number and calling her at a later time to set up a day 2


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 07, 2011 9:32 am 
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Next time dont wait 2 months to talk to her, it shows that you have no gut.
Simply just go to her, tell her to take off her ipod and say:
"You know, I've been coming to this gym for almost 2 weeks, and I gotta say you're the 3rd cuttest girl i've seen at this gym. You would be the second if you weren't be shy and actually come talk to me ;)"
And dont ask her out if you're not sure if you build enough attraction, testing the water first before you fish. Try to put up some kino with her, if she goes along, dont ask for number.

Act like you got a phone call, go out of the room to talk, come back while you're still on your phone, grab her arm, drag her out and hang up the phone. Then tell her she gotta help you, you forgot it's your sister bday, and your dad/mom just called planning her surprise bday in 2 hr, ask her to help you pick out the present.
(DONT LET GO OF HER while explaining this) -- Trust me this is fieldtested, most of the time she will help you, even she has something that day, an hour at the mall wouldn't hurt her that much.

After she help you, say thank then ditch her.
Next time you meet her, "hey i was in a hurry yesterday, didnt properly thank you, how about go to blah blah, my treat"
There is your Day 2.

PS: DO THIS ROUTINE BEFORE SHE SWEATS HER ASS OFF, obviously she wouldnt want to go to the mall looking all sweaty


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taohackne has some good stuff in there. The "3rd / 2nd cutest girl" is always a fun one.

But, if you're going DIRECT like that, no need to be indirect about getting the date / testing the waters about attraction. Going direct means ASSUMING she's attracted.

Next time, best to talk for 5-10 and set up a day2 there and then, after which you exchange numbers.

Since you didn't do that last time, when you see her again, talk to her for 5 min, and be like "hey listen, you're actually pretty cool (you should also mention she's cute or something if you haven't already) we should totally hang out." and then set up the day 2. If you can't think of anything, at least "hey there's this place I know that does AMAZING sushi / hot chocolate / martinis, we gotta go" so it's a little bit more interesting then "let's get dinner / a drink sometime" find a day during the week she's free, and then set it up. THEN n-close "just in case one of us is late."

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:21 am 
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Great postes, thanks.

Soo today i learned few interesting things about this chick. I saw her today and she waved to me with a big smile. Before i had a good chance to come up to her and talk some guy comes up to me that i just met at the gym which i have seem him talking to her few times and asks how do u know her. I just told him that i met her few days ago and right away he says "she is crazy". lol Apperently they were talking for a month and he tired hanging out with her but she would never go out with him but they text alot everyday he says. Anyways he told me she just started talking to some kid at the gym like a week ago. The guy isnt too bad looking and Im not trying to sound cocky but i think i top him by at least 3 points i also think that im build better. So now my question is, do i got for it now? or wait?...I feel like if i go for it i really have to step it up or play loose like u guys said above. Oh she is also 22 if that helps ha.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 2:14 am 
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Ignores what the guy said, he might have said all that stuffs so you can back down. Action speaks louder than word, watch her body language around him and you will know what is going on between them.
And look or build doesn't really matter that much in picking up, it all comes down to how you make her feel. But since she has been hit on by a lot of guys at that gym, it's best to act nonchalant about it, don't appear to be needy for her attention.
Next time if other guys come up while you're talking with her, talk to the guy and totally ignore her, then end the convo (still ignore her at this pt) and go do your workout.
DONT show her any frustration because of guys are hitting on her, act confidence like as if you're interested but not enough to pursue her yet, let she think that she has to qualify herself to you.


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Thats crazy u say that bc thats exactly what i did that day. I met the dude and he actually was cool and let me use something that i needed at te gym. I didnt say hi to her untill way into my work out and thats all i did. But i think im going to see her at the gym today so ill def talk to her today. Im little confused wether compliment her right away, or compliment her on how much cardio she does. She does like an hr and thirdy min of cardio every day and just had the sexiest body every.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:07 pm 
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Don't you think she hear compliments about her cardio and how sexy her body is EVERYDAY ? DO NOT group yourself with other chumps there.
Notice some small details about her and compliment on that instead. Ie. her habit, clothes color, etc, something that only a clever guy who doesn't spend the whole day drooling over her boobs and ass would notice. :)
If you can't find any, use Mystery negs. For example, "Lol i just noticed you always wiggle your nose when you laugh" ---> Doesnt matter if she does or does not, now she gonna go home, check herself out in the mirror, try laughing while thinking about u. Mission accomplished.
But it's best that you point out certain habit of her that you think is cute, that way it remind her of you everytime she does it.


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Thats a good one. Cool im glad i just looked at this forum bc im about to leave for the gym. I will try that


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PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:06 am 
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That HB is the reason you want to learn this PU art but to expect to just get a few posts on your query and be able to go out and get laid with this girl is putting yourself under a heck of a lot of pressure (when you dont need to).
Especially when there is a million other HBs out there.
Use your desire for her to learn PU art and try something simple at first just to break the ice because to run these routines requires more than just saying them!
If you haven't got the experience of trial and error of hundreds of approaches of other women how do you know this even works for you?
Shes hot yes but instead of beating yourself up about her(oneitis?) you could practise on her without expecting anything(detachment) and try a bit of fun push pull and keep it all light and non needy.
Until you get experience of things you know work practise on her and every other HB you meet till you get your own style.


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