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| $uave | PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 2:37 am | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2010 4:42 am Posts: 643 | | Anybody knows some good staff or has an advise on developing a strong inner game? I just started reading Man Weiss's "Zen of meeting women" and I really like it so far. going to start mediatating from today.
Any other advises?
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| Mr. Stinson | PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:01 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Nov 13, 2010 12:22 am Posts: 113 | | inner game is difficult to obtain, it really just requires you too develop a strong frame of mind and stick to it long enough that you adapt it into your personality. im working hard on my inner game but these are some of the things that i feel have helped me:
first off, id write down every key piece of knowledge you find valuable to you. this goes for everything to do with game. i know i personally will study something for a long time then soon forget it in 3 weeks. so write it down and review often.
things i try to focus on in my everday life:
- LEAD. dont ever ask questions and try and make every decision. i know at work ill be trying to decide how much of something to prepare but ill ask someone more senior than me even though i KNOW the answer(its kinda just being lazy but its still cheating). lead. always make your own decisions when possible.
-think of yourself as the prize and TRULY believe it. hey i never said it was easy but this is a big thing with talking to chicks with more value than you
-never mental masturbate. if you catch yourself thinking about a girl you like and fantasizing about her, dont. this gives the girl value in your head. dont fucking do it till your already banging her. dont even try and predict how convos will go. turn your brain off and do.
-my fav: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS REJECTION OR A BAD CONVERSATION. its all learning so you cant lose!
- be positive. if you notice yourself being negative try playing the positivity game which is were everything that happens, even if its shitty, try and think of a positive outlook on it. ex. your swamped at work and have to stay late: whatever your getting paid more money and will in return be able to buy something you want, or drink more.
-dont ever apologize. unless you really did something dumb, dont say sorry or even feel shitty about it. you had a terribly awkward convo with some girl and now feel like shit? (basically feeling sorry for putting yourself in that situation) dont apologize to yourself!
- and finally my favorite line. attraction is not a choice. it doesn't matter the social barriers between you and her, she cant choose wether shes attracted to you,
btw i dont consider myself a pua by any means, im just learning like you and feel that these things really helped me. if they can help you then im glad.
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