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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 3:15 am 
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Had a date scheduled with a HB8 tomorrow. Tonight she texted me and said she'd have to reschedule because she had to go out of town with her dad. I just texted her back "No worries. Have fun." I figured that was a non-needy response. Was that okay and how do you guys handle flakes?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 11:39 am 
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I think you did fine. I would of said pretty much the same thing. " Peace Out have fun" It's really the next step that will be more important. When that bitch get back in town and if she hits you back up. You do the same shit.

Her: Hey Sk... how about that date?
You: Umm... sorry... kinda busy that day... um how about you give me a call next fri. And i'll see if i'm clear. Peace!

Two things are going to happen.

1. She will never call back friday. In which you say fuck her anyways. She put you off in the beginning which means she don't think you that important. So why chase her ass... she not important either.. fuck her.

2. She will bug you alot more before next friday comes. In which you still make her wait. Then take your date. You will then have the upper hand because she waited all that time for your time. And it makes you the more important one.

Thats how I handle flakes. Those girls usually become my best hoes. Cause once I get them trained to never have me wait again. They pretty much throw the pus-sy at me anytime they can catch me. And it's usually because I turn it around and make them wait for that smoked Farmer John's... ha ha ha!

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 12:50 pm 
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When that bitch get back in town and if she hits you back up. You do the same shit.

Her: Hey Sk... how about that date?
You: Umm... sorry... kinda busy that day... um how about you give me a call next fri. And i'll see if i'm clear. Peace!

Two things are going to happen.

1. She will never call back friday. In which you say fuck her anyways. She put you off in the beginning which means she don't think you that important. So why chase her ass... she not important either.. fuck her.

2. She will bug you alot more before next friday comes. In which you still make her wait. Then take your date. You will then have the upper hand because she waited all that time for your time. And it makes you the more important one.
I second the notion that this works. It has worked for me with the 3 ladies that flaked out on me, and Lionheart213 hit the nail right on the head.


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Is that all she said, did she try and reschedule? Women who are interested, but have a legitimate reason to cancel, typically try to setup another day to see you.

If she canceled, without trying to setup another date to meet you, then yeah, right her off. Her IL is not high enough, has a sh*tty attitude, or she thinks you should be jumping through hoops to see her. Either way, move on and don't text her. If she comes back looking for attention, make her WORK for it.

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Usually what I do is ignore it and move on with my day, make her feel bad, dont say anything and automatically next her. If she IS actually interested, she will contact you eventually. If not, then move on. I don't like to waste time to give her another chance when she can't even putting effort in apologizing


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She posted a status on her FB page about going to Saint George Island. I guess the going to GA with her dad was a front. Looks like I got played, gentlemen.


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Did you get played, or did you not build enough ATTRACTION? Think on that a little...

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she's a HB8 ? She probably wants some social proof(see you with hot chicks)
Well you did a good thing by acting cool, when I was younger(16,17) I would tell them to go f*** them self it was not so good, but yeah I was just a kid back then so no harm :). Last week a girl canceled on me cause she had to go with her mom , so I told her yeah It's cool, We'll see each an other time :). That day I went with some friends shopping , so actually we did had a great time, later that day I was on msn with her. Ain't she was asking me how my day went, I told her : I'm so tired. She said: ooh, what did you do today?
I told her that I went shopping with friends and that I was fun etc...
She was like superbumbed out man, and now she always try to see me, but yeah I'm busy with school etc so I'm not giving her much time and attention and I'm working on other girls.

You should let some time pass, work on couple of other girls. Get lots of pics with hot girls/women.And let her chase you, if she don't, then she wasn't worth it

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great thing you can say next time is, "its alright, some great plans came up for me too!"

that DHV's because she will think, was he gonna blow me off? and human nature is to want something you can't have.

but like everyone said, if she doesn't message back FUCK THAT. On to the next one!


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