For basics I am a 18 year old college freshman ( I still live at home and go to a commuter school) I am pretty short (I am around the 5'6-5'7 range) weightwise I am about 145 and look pretty skinny but i got a bit of a guy I am not a virgin I have had sex with one girl in my entire life a girl who later cheated on me and demolished my self esstem. I have been single for about a year and a half last year I read The Game and it motivated me to look into PUA I picked up some things but got no results I havent been laid or had a girlfriend in about a year and a half. Is this by choice? No its not in fact it isn't that I haven't tried fashion wise I really improved myself I wear nicer clothes nowadays and take great pride in the way I look. Sadly my senior year was spent fighting rumors that I was gay. Its not that I want a FWB ( I wouldnt mind it) but I want something more possibly and I am not getting the girls I want

My question to the PUA community is What is wrong with me? I think I have finally came to terms that I am a AFC what advice would you give me? and how did you make the switch from AFC to PUA how did you learn?

Any advice would be highly welcomed

The only way to learn is to go out and approach woman. You can spend all the time in the world sitting behind a computer or reading books about Pick Up, but you only really learn when you're in field practicing the things you learn.

Take me for example, before I got into game I was shit scared of social situations, whenever walking through busy places i'd have my head down, avoiding eye contact. I wouldn't talk to girls even if my friends knew them.

I'm not claiming to be a PUA, I don't think I ever will, but since learning about Game, I've become more social and more confident in social situations. Have a read through the forums, try the "Newbie Mission"

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Second of all, there is NOTHING wrong with you. You're a great guy who just lacks a little confidence, thats fine, absolutely nothing wrong with that. If you think negative you will feel negative. Stand in front of the mirror, tell yourself that you're a unique person with a great personality.