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So I know i can hold a good conversation be funny and all..about the only strong points i can think about at this point lol..thats the only part of the whole game im not bad in i guess
but theres the infamous fear of approach and opening..being shy..
Im half way through Kezia s book and have a book from gambler and the game from neil strauss...

Where do i take it from here..keep reading the whole book and stuff or start goin out tryin to approach get some practise and see where else i fail and find out what other strong points i have?

i guess goin out takin it step by step cuz reading sooo much will make me forget most before i even start goin out ...lol

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At the doorstep of a new life..

Read the book, but also go out of your way to talk to women in real life. Go to a grocery store and ask a lady about something she's looking at. I don't think AA is caused by being intimidated by women as much as everyone says. I have no problem talking to the girl at the bookstore when I'm looking for a book. For me AA is caused by knowing I typically don't really have shit to say when I go up to a girl I just want to open. I would have the same anxiety walking up to a dude and just trying to talk to him for no real reason. That's why a routine is good, because it gives you something to talk about. But for me, I just try to make small talk with strangers (always female) just to prove that I can.

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31 and still figuring it out.