Hi
I could really use some advice. I started seeing a new girl about a month ago. We have only gone out twice. She works a very demanding job, but everytime we chat all I hear is she is exhausted or so busy, but seems excited to talk to me.

Last time we met she was acting really interested (holding my hand, talking about future plans) and told me to call her later that weekend. That was the weekend before the past weekend. After the date I told her I wanted to get together soon and to let me know when she was free because I know she has a busy schedule - that was 14 days ago. She said "sure that sounds good and she wouldfor sure : )".

Now she never initiates conversation. Only once and it was a drunk text a 1am just saying hi. However, whenever I write her she always responds with "Hiii!!!!!". Last time I wrote her was a week ago and she was saying how it was a really busy week for her. She does have a really really busy job. She then joked how every week seems to be busy. I said I hear ya and told her I had to go. We haven't talked since.

Does anyone have any advice? I like her alot.
My gut tells me she is brushing me off...

One time I didn't respond to one of her "busy" texts. She wrote back a couple hours later. Before we met first time she was giving me the run around over and over and then I rejected her next offer. Guess what? She called asking to go out again.
What should I do? Should I even ask her out again.
I have been given different advice.Some of it is that she might be shy, or busy, or not interested. Alot of people said to ask her what's up or ask her out again. Maybe giving her space and seeing other people will work best?

Peak her sexual interest, she has nothing invested so far, and plenty of options.

Make her want you.

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How?
Should I text on valentines?0

Peaking someones sexual interest over text is always a bad idea. Texting should be kept to minimal when its with a girl you're into otherwise she'll catergorise you as another "texting buddy" or just keep you as a guy she texts for attention as texting = easier then meeting you.

You need to get sexual with her when your're face2face with her. Which is piss easy, just escalate and keep going till she performs LMR then freeze, rinse and repeat. Girls love to be chased so LMR is a good thing. Once you get sexual with her i.e. touching her up, pushing her against the wall when you kiss (always a good one), dry humping, all of that sort of thing.

What I always do is make any situation with a girl I want like this.

Texting me = You get a standard response, a cheeky comment at best. After 2/3 texts I sign off i.e. "Have a good day, ttyl"

Meeting me = time of your life. I go full out.

This benefits me in many ways. I don't have to text and I can gauge a girls interest when I'm out with her depending on if she moans about the texting thing i.e. "You never text me...do it more" = she wants it.

Be THE MAN when you're with her and mehish when you're not. As men were programmed to think we have to go full on all the time however women will gauge this behaviour as "He's awesome when he's with me but when he's not he barely acknowledges me...WHO IS HE BEING AWESOME WITH!? I NEED TO GET NAKED FOR HIM SOON!"

If she liked you she'd find time.

You should be texting or calling now... Calling preferably. Don't wait for Valentines. Why wait?

You're a peripheral part of her life right now... Like a chair in her living room. You're just... there.

She's completely not invested in you at all. You're a distraction at best and you need to change that if you want to have anything to do with her romantically.

You need to make yourself appear to be an option to her and not a peripheral piece of furniture.

No it's not.
This is good.

If they have sufficient interest they will live in front of your house in their car!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.