Giving picking up a certain girl a second chance?



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2011 5:38 pm 
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I'm assuming I'm right on this one, but I thought I'd still check out what people here think... basically, I know that after a woman has rejected or "rejected" you, you should move on, and I have... it's just that it has been around three or four months that this one girl didn't answer my calls after calling her twice even though I thought she legitimately seemed somewhat interested (we probably had our most awkward conversation ever afterwards, started by moi, she seemed kind of embarassed/uncomfortable/I don't know). It doesn't really matter what I did wrong back then at this point, although I think I have a clue on that one aswell (let's just say I didn't know about kino and escalation and all this stuff back then :lol: ) - nevertheless I was wondering if you think it's, in general, a good idea to try picking up some girl with whom it originally didn't work out if months have passed since?

...And she's very, very good looking? :wink: (I wouldn't bother otherwise...)

She is not the only one I've got my eyes on, I have other options too, but she's just stunning and that got me thinking here.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2011 7:12 pm 
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Go for it. It's an opportunity to see how much you've improved.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2011 8:24 pm 
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All the moving on/AFC stuff is bullshit. I've learned that the secret to everything is BALANCE. Saying sorry when we know we've done something wrong..etc. I'm trying to bring up a whole point here because I've had many losses and missed opportunities from remaining stuck up. If you want something in life and didn't get it the first time, try again..it's all common sense. Most people get this wrong and instead try HARDER. Trying harder means that you're applying the same tactic from before to a much higher degree. Switching the tactic is the secret. You want this girl, you are unsure if she is interested..you have conflict. You're a human being, you can't just erase something from your memory. This tells us that you CANNOT just move on because you want to pursue her but at the same time you don't want to over do it.

Everyone who is new to PUA and game jumps to the other end of the spectrum and it isn't until they've failed so much that they finally begin to form a balance.


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