Hi,

first of all, I am not a PUA guys. Chasing after as many girls as you can is just not ME, I'd much rather stick with one girlfriend. I have come to this forum to learn more about girls and because the advice and support you people give here is rare to find on the internet.

Okay, there is this girl in my class. She is perfect. She is the most beautiful girl in the entire school, smart, popular and very friendly. She is really different from the other girls.
I am not just really into her, but I think I am in love, for the first time in my life. Problem is I cannot figure out wheter she likes me or not, because she is giving me mixed signals.
She is looking at me. Alot. Often when we are in the classroom I see her glancing at me, then when I look back she quickly looks down and away, like she doesn't want me to catch her staring. After that she usually starts to send off some IoIs like preening, blushing, fixing her hair etc. When I see her talking to her friends they sometimes look at me and then start to giggle.
Also, when we make eyecontact it's usually very strong.

I know you guys will tell me to make a move on her but that's not really easy. We are in highschool. In the same class and we will be in the same class for three more years (we both do the highest possible level). I know she is my oneitis, and I know oneitis ain't a good thing. I have read enough on this forum to know oneitis can make you blind. Maybe I am missreading all her IoI's, or maybe I'm not but aren't they directed to me. I do want to make a move but I need to be 100% certain that she likes me aswell.

How do I find out?

Why do you have to be 100% sure? What are you scared of? She is just a girl with a million insecurities looking for attention. Man up, take control of the situation and talk to her.

Your timid wussy boy behavior is going to chase her away. You better hurry up before she moves on and finds herself a bad boy that can give her the excitement she craves. Better yet, be the bad boy!

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Go ahead and talk with her if 'talking with her' is your goal.

If you want to make her your girlfriend, then keep that in mind and ASK HER OUT. There are many ways to do this . . . but at your age, you should read this:

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The principles do not change whether you're 15 or 50.

You're not in love with her, you lust for her. Love is a bigger bitch than that, it's when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and you find out you still care for that person. Lust is basically having the neediness from love without feeling hurt. You don't feel hurt, you barely know this girl. Why do you think all love stories and poems are associated with hurt? Because being "hurt" is a bi-product of love.

With girls that are actually friendly, you need to be careful with your actions because these girls tend to have morals and will drop you immediately if you're a jerk. Do something balanced between nice and jerk to captivate interest. I would make a rose out of a piece of tissue paper and give it to her saying, "I am giving this to you not because you're extremely pretty, but because you're pretty."

Another example. Suppose this girl rode your bus. I would get off first before her and I would randomly wait by the door and as she steps down, I would reach my hand out like a gentleman and help her down the steps. It's an extremely random move which is very unusual in high school that is 100% certain to get her thinking about you.

Yes, I know I must man up and ask her out. Problem is that I'm the new guy in this class, and the other 30 have been with her for 3 years, and so they are very protective. If I have misreaden everything and fuck this up I don't know what will happen.. as I said I still have 3 more years to go with these people.