ya the guy should pay for the date even if u r short on cash youll be demonstrate lower value if you let her chip in

It's a date, I would pay unless she insist to pay, and a movie ticket won't ruin you. You don't want to look cheap.
When I'm on a date I always offer to pay, but I like to go dutch times to times or to keep a ratio of 2/3 ( I would pay 2 times over 3 times ). I don't want a chick to date me for my money, but you are 15, more likely a girl won't date you for your money

If you need to or she mention that you are living far away, told her to enjoy the present moment, you are young only ones. You don't have to broke up, since you aren't bf/gf.

Just tell her that when you can see eachother... you will... you only seen her twice including the movie... so its not really a let down man...

my god is this thread just newbies talking to eachother with horrible advice?

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Be constructive, why is it horrible advice ? I was just trying to help...

you're telling him to pay for the movie, as opposed to saying "you shouldn't be going to a movie anyway" and directing him to actually good date ideas, instead of conventional garbage that isn't going to build any connection.

You want a date she won't forget, not the same thing she's already done.

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that is true but the guys 15 very limated things a 15 year old guy can do with a chick and i think at most they might kiss so let them enjoy the movies and playing games,Why would u want him to change what is working for him,if he suddenly changes the date,his going to try to hard and fail,instead of the perfect date he will be remembered for the idiot he made oif himself

i say save yourself the trouble,stick to simplistic ideas and dates,don't push her to far and leave her with a line like il always remember u for u were my first love.U dont have to mean it but it will give u an opportunity later on in life if u ever trace back ur past.

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My advice is DONT PAY. You can occasionally pay after you FUCK her already.

First, paying for stuffs and worry that she would think that you're cheap is an AFK mistake. You will appear as trying to buy her affection, and do you think that will make you different from all the other AFCs who hit on her before? NO
Second, once you pay, it will become a habit, more or less of her expectation from you every time you go out. It will be hard to change that later.
If you don't wanna look cheap, there are millions to show her that. (ex: you give waiter big tip after paying your OWN bill, etc)
If you still feel bad about not paying, here is what I usually do: I offer to take turn to pay for the date. Like I would pay for dinner and she needs to pay for the movie, but always take the bigger bill.
Another way to do this is makes her feel like she earned it ( Ex: a bet, a game , a riddle, etc)

I'll give you an idea on this one also. I usually ask the girl out to help me pick a present for my friend, make sure you tell her its for a girl so that's a DHV. ANd you got urself a casual no pressure date. Then later on use this as an excuse: "Hey I wanna thank you for helping me the other day, come to [place] at [time]"
There is your second date, and this time you can offer to pay as a token of appreciation.

I only pay for women in red light districts. All other payments get you in trouble. But since you're 15 I don't think it matters so much

its ok to pay one time then she pays next time and so on dont get into the habit of paying everytime, it will clear your bank balance and in a sense your saying ill meet up with you but dont worry im paying so in a way your paying for her attention

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Ugh you guys act like because he's 15 he can act like a AFC. I'm 15 myself too and I would say tell her your going to the movie with her. If she doesn't got the money with her sucks for her "lets go to a park or something.", if you REALLY want to go to the movie tell her, "You know what, I'll pay for you."

And GOD your 15 your not making fucking money? You'll lose 1/10 of your salary paying a ticket for her >_>

Disconnecting without hurting her you say? She KNOWS you live far away right? Just tell her you'll be seeing her less, or just not, because you live far away, be direct.

Jeez.

Exactly. Last year I tried to make a move on women, not knowing how they think.
I thought I should buy her drinks, and give her my constant attention. Make sure I look up to her

" Hey, my name is... You look so damn hot... Can I buy you a drink?.. I'd do anything to be with you.. You are so cool, I want you so bad and nobody else.. "

If you do that, you are a butkisser and she uses you to make her feel good. You will never be her lover with that attitude. Or you will at the age of 30, and end up in a pathetic relationship like my dad

Imagine this is the final of the Olympic games. Your girl has won the silver medal. Women always want someone who is slightly better. They think they deserve to be with a strong personality, with a higher social status. She wants gold and not bronze

By running after her and paying her drinks, you scream that you are bronze and look up to her. The key is to believe that you are gold, and that you are the first prize to be won. Without being totally arrogant, but even if you are a bit overconfident you can get away with it. Especially if you are attractive
You shouldn't always tell her how great you are, but you can make her realize that by constantly having other girls around you. Never say how much you want someone but be indifferent. Because you are gold anyway and nobody is better