Ive got mixed feelings towards this stuff - meaning the whole seduction community in general. Its nothing personal, its just that sometimes I feel like this stuff is actually counterproductive for me as its like im putting too much emphasis on learning and not caring about results and i end up blowing out a lot of sets and getting a shitty reputation for myself. Im only 20, so a majority of these girls i hit on are all from social circles or know people in a social circle that know people in my social circle etc.

I feel like I want to learn this so much and it seems so satisfying that i neglect other aspects of my life mentally. Like this becomes my obcession almost and i end up caring too much about it which shines through in my vibe.

Have any of yall ever felt like this? And if so how did you deal with it?

How exactly are you being "blown out?"

What kind of "reputation" are you getting?

My initial advice before learning more would be to do COLD approach with STRANGERS so that, if you get blown out badly, it won't affect your reputation.

I recommend DAYGAME! (no surprise there )

As for getting obsessed by pickup, I think a lot of us go through that. What I started to do was read around a lot of the areas that come up to broaden my knowledge. So for example I read a lot of NLP, which helps with my job in sales, sexual technique (which helps with my job fucking the shit out of bitches) and a bunch of self-help stuff like 7 habits of effective people and how to win friends and influence people, etc.

In this way you can take that motivation and drive you have to succeed with women and turn it into a more general drive for self-improvement for many different areas, helping you become a more well-rounded person.

People who only talk about PU all day turn fucking weird. (This includes the people at RSD who also talk about Eckhart Tolle but are still fucking weird.) Don't be like them.

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