Hi all. New member here. So I just got flaked out today. Here's how it all started. We went on our first date on christmas day. I thought it went pretty well and when I got home she messaged me right away and we had a little chit chat. For the next few days, she would be the first one messaging me first everytime, but I always keep it short cause I don't wanna talk too much when we are not in person.

I then asked her out for a 2nd date for Sunday (today), but she said she's busy that day, so we decided on Monday. A few hours later she would text me back and say lets hang out on Sunday afternoon again. So we both agree on that. Well today is Sunday and she calls me and says that she has a packed schedule today and needs to postpone it. She said if tomorrow was okay, but I have to work tomorrow. I told her that it would have to be Monday night after I get off work, but she said she has a girls night out thing. At that point I just said okay we'll do this next time and ended it.

Is she still interested even though she flaked? Reason I ask is that she did counter offer for the Monday afternoon when she called to flake out on me, but I can't tell. I think I'm gonna not talk to her for at least a couple days and then give a her a hard time about flaking on me in a humorous way.

What do you guys think?

She sounds kinda legit in that she was giving you plenty of notice and did initially counter offer. I wouldn't get too hung up but my suggestion would be make some other plans for the next several days so you are busy and not just sitting around waiting for her.

DON'T call her and ask for another date untill she makes amends for canceling twice.

I wouldn't even give her any crap about canceling/postponing because that will show you that it bothered you (DLV). Just be busy with other social engagements and make her chase you a little bit and make it up to you.

Do a little freeze out and let her make the next contact and comeback with another offer. If you never hear from her again you have your answer on if she is still interested or not. Then you will have time to go out and bang a dozen other chicks.