I know this topic has been discussed with some controversy here on the boards, I believe even Roissy blogs about it from time to time. I’ve been working on this lately and I have to say I have found it to be extremely effective. This is not to be used on the initial phases of the seduction but rather after there has been some physical connection be it sex or whatever, preferably while in the post coitus glow.

What I have found is that if you employ a direct/alpha/asshole style of game a lot of girls may label you as a player, or think they may have made a mistake by sleeping with you too quickly. After sex when she usually wants to have some pillow talk and get to know you better if you can briefly reveal some aspect of your life be it a personal issue, traumatic experience, challenge, etc that makes you seem a little more human and lets her feel that she can connect with you on a deeper level.

Now I would not recommend doing this with a girl that you don’t want a future with because I have found that this really seals the deal and makes them want to go down the path of a possible relationship. I’ve made the mistake recently of doing this with girls that I don’t want to continue seeing and they have got a little bit psycho on me so head my warning. I know some of you will say this is beta or whatever but if it’s done in small controlled doses it works wonders. Give it a shot the next time the opportunity presents itself.

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~Carmo~