I've pretty much been a failure with women my entire life. Within the last year I've read a lot of PUA material and started going out and interacting with women more. Lately I've been having really good interactions with women but they just never turn into day 2's. In the last week, I got 4 numbers (2 of which were great interactions by my account) and all 4 of them blew me off.

So, I have 2 questions

1. What can I do to up my chances of getting a day 2?

2. Let's face it, being blown off 4 times in a week hurts. It's depressing. When this happens, how do I avoid falling into a rut of negativity?

I really want to get this aspect of my life under control.

How long do you wait to text them? Do you do/say anything that could come across as needy or desperate?

I usually wait 1-2 days to call/text. I've even tried seeding the coversation with a plan for why we're getting together and still nothing.

As for neediness, nothing blatantly needy IMO but I'm an AFC so it's hard to totally have a strong belief system about dating beautiful women when I've never dated beautiful women. Know what I mean?