| At around 4 AM at night New Year's party I find this HAWT German girl in a club. I approach. First thing she says is "I am not interested in meeting guys, etc.". I disarm her with humour and she becomes more responsive. I go for number close, she gives me a shit-test, I sail through it and she puts her number in my phone.
Then she says, she is not looking for a BF. I accuse her of pushing too hard to be my GF, and joke that I am very traditional. She is really into me by now. I play style's lying game and ESP gambit. Esp gambit worked and was delivered perfectly..she is blown away by it and is all over me by now.
Finally with a lot of interest in her eyes she goes, "I just don't want a player, I have had way too many bad experiences"...I go "I love to play. Sometimes with one person..sometimes with many..I am even planning to go for the olympics" and at this point, I ask her to hold my drink (nearly empty) and excuse myself to go to the restroom. (This had to be done...because she was doing a "Time constraint" by starting to look for her friend...and I was losing some value by waiting..I used the drink as a prop..so I have reason to find her when I am back.
Before I left, this girl gave me every IOI that was ever invented, she even held my hand and pulled me back, when I pretended I was leaving, because I was not happy with one of her comments (playfully of course).
After I come back from the restroom, I cant find her, so I just game another 3 set. I am not sure if she saw this or not, as I couldnt spot her anywhere and I tried my best to ensure that she didnt see me. At the same time, I didnt want to stand alone and look like an idiot.
Then all of a sudden I see her leaving the club (I didnt see her spotting me)..so I approach from behind (I KNOW...A HUGE MISTAKE) and ask her where my drink is...she points somewhere and is not AT ALL friendly. A complete 360 Degree.
I send her a follow up text...the same night (as despite the awkward end) I felt there was great momentum during the conversation and I should capitalise on it.
My Text
"I cant believe u finished my drink...Just presuming that u r my girlfriend and acting like one wont help u get me...I am not so easy "
(This was a continuation of my previous frame, where I framed her as putting too much pressure on me to be her boyfriend..whereas I was only trying to get to know her).
Nearly 24 Hours..and no response yet. I thought this was one of my smoothest approaches ever. I even won her Guy friend over when he came to us for a while and he kinda left us alone so we could speak and she was a pretty hard nut to crack But here are the mistakes I think I made.
1. I feel I didnt deal with the "r u a player" question too well..I honestly feel, I could have shown some vulnerability there, as I was pretty Cocky Funny for most of the convo.
2. The approach towards the end wasnt a good idea
3. The strong possibility that she saw my approach with the 3 set (I gamed the 3 set fairly well).
Over the last few days, I have had a few girls who have replied after more than 24 hours have elapsed..but presuming that this chick doesnt respond...I would love your suggestions for follow-up action.
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