| Personally I think subscription sites are a waste of money, everything you need to know can be found for free online. But more importantly, you ALREADY KNOW everything you need to attract a girl, it is naturally embedded into you, you just need to let go of the feminine social conditioning you've been put through all your life. This is why some guys are "Naturals," early success with women builds upon itself (Success breeds success) and by the time they're adults, they have a natural mastery over the crimson arts.
You should learn how to dance by taking lessons or something, but I wouldn't recommend gaming at nightclubs yet. Think about learning game the same way as you would working out. If you challenge yourself to much, you risk injury. If you don't challenge yourself enough, then you won't develop at all. If you try and bag HB10s the first night you go sarging, the earth-shattering rejections you receive will more than likely simply discourage you from approaching.
Since you don't feel comfortable at night clubs, try gaming somewhere else. Day game works exceptionally well (libraries, book stores, cafes, etc).
Cold approaching isn't the only way to meet girls either, expand your social circle so you are FRIENDS with more girls. I've met more girls through mutual friends than I have by doing cold approaches. The bigger your social circle, the more social proof you can develop and the more opportunities you'll have.
Besides that, work on internal / external game. Learn proper body language, work out incredibly hard, and consciously adopt an Alpha mentality. At first your mind will resist the change, it will naturally push you to regress into AFC mode. You need to work through this and eventually internalize everything you learn.
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