long story short: met a girl online on a dating site. she was the one that was more pro active about meeting and initiated our meetings most of the time. there were some missunderstandings concerning getting more intimate, she sort of blocked on the second date when i gave her a stroke, later she clarified that she just was shy. a similar missunderstanding occured again on the following two dates (when texting she sort of liked the idea of me kissing her etc. but acted like a spinx when we were physically next to each other and i therefore didnt bother trying).

so on the third date things were clarified and we cuddled and gave small kisses on the mouth. i didnt want to take it further, wanted to keep that for next time (stupid- i know).

next day i suggested that we could meet 2 days later to continue where we left off to kiss and cuddle after going for a dinner together. it took her 8 hrs to respond to that text which seemed fishy already. when she responded she emphasized how much she would love the idea. next day i made a specific suggestion where to meet and made a minor sexual innuendo and she said that we could drop the restaurant part and start with the other stuff (making out) immediately , since i am more of a romantic i insisted we go out first...she accepts..

next day = on the day of the date she suddenly cancels in the morning, with a sort of weird excuse that i dont really buy. she mentions she will be back in town two days later which is today.

whilst we were dating she hardly was online and now that has changed in the past few days, she also rearranged her pics. that tells me no good.

there are two possibilities:

1) either she doesnt know what she wants and/or isnt ready for something new- in this case this outcome is good and i shouldnt even think of getting in touch again.

2) she was acting like a princess all along waiting for me to escalate things which didnt happen becuse, as mentioned, she acted weird/incohesive. so she might have thought that this isnt what she is looking for without giving it another shot. i know that its only a day and she still might call, but my gut feeling tells me she wont. and i really dont want to get in touch since she cancelled the last date suddenly after stressing that she would really like it, the way i see it the ball is clearly in her court and anything else would be chasing after her.

anyone disagree and think that i should get in contact again? i really dont like the idea to be honest..