I'm currently reading this post on yahoo answer about this girl losing attraction to this guy, because he is opening up to her. Tell her about his problems, his life, and himself. As a result, she feels that he is crossing the line and feels uncomfortable about it. SO my question is how do you open up to someone while increasing or maintaining that attraction?

Additional details: Here's the link to the yahoo question that prompt this question:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index ... 305AAk068G

Thanks in advance for any insights !

The idea is to open up as long as she is opening up...

You don't go and tell the story of your life while she just told you her name.

You escalate as she opens to you...

Opening up too fast make girls lose interest because you lose all the "Mystery Aura". Remember curiosity and intrigue are important things and telling everything about yourself make girls lose all that and even make you predictable and boring.

Learn to listen first and then talk.

As for what happen with the guy and girl. He rush too fast and she felt committed. He became a wuss. She only wanted sex but instead the guy fell in love or something he behaved like a woman when the only thing she was looking for was a MAN in the bed.

"This was originaly a NSA (no strings attached) arrangement"

"I've seen him cry several times"

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Thank you xfman,

Your response really puts my thoughts into sentence. Are there ways to turn this situation around ? i.e ways to recreate attraction

the things girls want you to open up about are your Passions, not your problems.

The best thing for opening up (once you're really getting to know her) is fun childhood experiences.

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Thank you KristalNache !

Fun childhood it is !