I am looking for some advice for tonight. If any of you could provide some game advice on my situation I would greatly appreciate it.

My sister and I are going to a new year’s party tonight and she is bringing a friend of hers I have been trying to bed for 5+ years now. She talks a big game, flirts, and acts like she wants to get down, but whenever things start to get too real for her she always backs down, citing bullshit like “You look too much like your sister” and so on.

I’ve been working on this for years and I cannot figure out the way in. I’m a couple points more attractive that her, in better shape, older… I’m fairly successful with women, and I bag much more attractive women on a regular basis. I don’t know why I want this one so bad… I guess it is simply the chase of it, and the fact that she is my sister’s best friend. If i were to see this girl walking down the street I wouldn’t look twice.

My sister has even encouraged us to hook up. What gives with this girl!? I need a game plan for tonight. We will be at a party, alcohol will be involved. What’s my plan?

A little more details...

I don't see this girl very often. Maybe once a year. Rereading my post it makes it sound like I've been trying nonstop for 5 years to get in this girls pants. This is not so... We just occasionally see each other and flirt a bit, but I can never close the deal.

She is 24, I am 28. We've talked about hooking up before. I thought I had it in the bag a couple times, but she always backs out, always for some excuse involving how close she is with my sis.