hi guys firstly im sorry if this is in the wrong section. Little bit about the topic well im just out of a 3 year relationship and i recently met this girl who is also just out of a 1 year relationship. we have known each other for about two years but had only talked about once between that because we live in different areas. Well i was talking to her about 2 weeks ago and got her number and all so weve been texting and that since. I have just set up what shall we call it a "date"? tonight were just going out for a few drinks. She is bringing one of her friends also and i will probably bring one of mine. Im just wondering how should i open up when i see them? any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance!

Focus on having an absolute blast and you'll be fine. In my opinion, there's nothing more attractive than a man that knows how to have a great time, no matter the situation. If you're focused on having fun, you won't be outcome dependent, you won't be needy and self conscious, you'll be you.

Good luck man,