| Use kino on her, but NOT in a flirty/seductive way. For example. If you two are at computers and she needs help or something, go over to her and gently throw her hand off the mouse and work it yourself. You can use kino, you can show interest, but it must not come across as LIKING her. I have noticed that a lot of people going into this PUA stuff begin to think that they must be uneedy, to not show that they like the girl, but they do the opposite! Instead they are even more aggressive with their actions and invade the girl's personal space, try to be all seductive and crap and it just doesn't work.
Don't neg her either, that will work against you. What you need to do is act somewhere between nice and mean. If she looked away from me when someone called her name, I would reach my hand over and snap in her face saying, "Hey" with a raised eyebrow. If she gets pissed off then I would say, "How else was I supposed to get your attention?" In a calm but masculine voice while tilting my head and looking less mean.
Don't put the girl down, and certainly don't compliment. You have to get the "raised eyebrows" attitude and be interesting.
If I were talking to that girl and she began to act all immature and stuff, I wouldn't try harder or confront her about it and by confronting I mean, "I'm talking to you, don't you turn away from me." Instead, I would bring up a point and say, "Having you ever seen the way a squirrel moves and acts?" She'll either say, "Yeah, why?" or, "I don't care." If she says "I don't care", I would tilt my head to the side and bring my eyebrows close together (above the nose) and say, "Mmm...nah, not if you pay attention" with a professor-like tone as if you're going to teach her something. And while you're saying that, you're looking around, you're staying in motion while reverting your focus back onto her. Then after that I would say, "You see, a squirrel is a rodent which means that their hearts beat very fast as if they've had too many red bulls. There are just times when you're exactly like that." With eyebrows raised. Maintain that attitude as if you're giving a presentation to teach people something. If she would then continue to be immature like saying, "And your point is.." I would then say, "I just told you..damn see what I mean.." Start this whole thing off from a distance and move in closer. So when you ask her if she's seen the way squirrels act, say that from a laid back position. Then after that lean in to grab her interest more and say the rest.
Get the point now? It's not being mean, it's being INTERESTING. To be interesting, you must be neither mean (arrogant) or nice (ass kisser). Act like you're slapping her on the wrist, be the TEACHER.
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