ok, let me explain because this probably makes me look weird probably. Never happened to you that you find a girl in street or whatever, and you think "hmmm.. this girl probably looks great when going out but now it's just not dressed/makeup for hunting". Well it happens to me when I'm in that mental state my approach is insecure and if she moves foward too much I dont know what to do because my mind is filled with thoughts like (uh and if she is just this, if she doesnt look that great when going out, how do I kick her out with all the moves I did?, etc)

I found out many years ago that when a girl thinks she likes you, even if she thinks she really likes you and a few moments later she finds she doesnt like your personality, way of life or whatever, they kick you out inmediately with no regrets, but I'm just unable to do this.. yet. I was wondering how do you handle this situations if you happened to have any situation like this

well if she is only "so so" when you approach her, picking her up should be easier for you and a possible rejection wouldnt be as bad. then on the first or second date you would see what she is like and can decide if you want to proceed or not. but be aware that what you consider "so so" is what she will look like most of the time..