Hey i've been reading these forums on and off for a while now, trying to look at things that could stop me from getting girls and adjusting what could be the problem.
Before i get into my problems I want to note that I really beleive I have what it takes to get alot of girls, but I struggle to get girls interested in me in any way, even as a friend. I live in Melbourne and am a Breakdance teacher, I like to think I'm very good at it as my crew had made top 8 at the Australian Bboy Championships this year and I have won other sorts of titles including a 1on1 out of 54 people not too long ago. With that I also like to think i have a good body as well as not being too bad looking with the face. I think I have many qualities that from what i beleive should be really appealing to girls, I believe my fashion sense is a bit different but should appeal to girls alot as it's very similar to friends of mine who get lots of girls (have also gotten compliments from girls for my fashion, but only from ones with bfs). So looks wise i think i got the fashion, the body and the face as i like to groom myself nicely even if i'm just going to go training. Personality wise I think i'm alot nicer then most guys, i dont want to sound stuck up but i see jerks alot, i see dudes playing with chicks emotions i see dudes who pretty much lie and bullshit their way through life. I am a truely honest person, I try to be the nicest person I can be and will always try to make choices based around what i beleive is right rather then what i really want for myself. I'm a pretty sentimental guy and really try to be a good person. I like to think this is a good thing, but in many cases with girls i think may be one of my weak points. trying to keep this a bit more short, basically i've only had one gf in my life that lasted 3 weeks and have only kissed 2 girls, i'm 23 years old, i'm a very friendly guy and like to party and have no difficulty going up to random people and talking with them, however I just struggle so much to get attention from girls, I struggle so much and have so few female friends that I'm not looking for sex or a relationship, i'd be pretty happy with just making some female friends. There's obviously some big flaw in my approach or look or something that i don't notice, but I cant tell what it is as i beleive i have the confidence, the look and the personality. Chicks like gay dudes, i aint gay but I've had gay dudes think i was gay on a few occasions as well with me liking alot of chick flicks like twilight n shit I would have thought girls would at least talk to me or not think when i talk to them im trying to pick them up. On the other note, i have a big interest in asian culture and the women along side with that, lots of my friends are asian so most of the time I'm trying to talk to asians and i think maybe there might be some sort of clash. Maybe they don't like white guys, maybe it's just a culture thing that i dont understand. Often enough i feel like they think i'm trying to pick them up when i'm just trying to talk and maybe make a friend, but i guess it's natural to think that in a club. I get greased off a lot before i even get the chance to say anything.
Having said that is there anything people think may be my problem? I really think I have the ability to make friends with lots of girls, even have good bf potential, but am just at a loss with what my REAL problem is.