I was walking & chatting with a girl today whom I'd f-closed 1 & a half times(over a year ago).

I still want to bang her again,but I failed to more than 5 occasions.

She has a bf,so it's challenging.

Anyway,as we chatted & flirted today,I told her that I'm going to stop by her later tonight.

She says,"Ok then,come at your own risk";meaning she has a bf.

But why agree to me coming by if she knows it's risky and she has a bf(which she really does)?

Im naturally paranoid of shit like this;thinking her bf may jump out the bushes and chop me the hell up(lmao).

Remind you,I'd been to her place few times without her bf knowing,but she put up massive LMR(eventhough I'd laid her twice prior).

Im just confused here.

I really wanna lay this chicc some more.

But I really dont see why she would agree to me coming to her house,knowing it's risky for me.

Im for the risky sex and thrill/rush of getting caught.

But why would she risk her LTR by having me come see her later and possibly bang her?

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well im assuming your a obvious player she likes you, you might even fu*k better then her bf. and she gives you lmr because she want you to fight for her, but you dont its just sex.

or she can be like every other woman if you begg enough she'll put out, stop chase her and let her chase you. you must be doing something good for her to keep you around. blow her off (neg) when you go to her house dont try to kiss dont even touch her. she'll try to get physical with you. when she give in fu*k her like you never had before.

then pick up your pants and say i gotta go, and neg her again, keep doing this until you brake her mentally.

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Yo man.

Look, nobody can look into other peoples mind. but i think she just wants the same like you do: thrills and heartbeats.

edit: yeah, i saw that somebody posted in the meanwhile.

About the chasing: i dont think K-loc is really chasing, in the sense of really needing her. I think he gives the good vibe.

I disagree again with the negging. If you are at her house, its indeed at your own risk. If her BF is there, lol, you are in for some fun! But you also know then that she is playing with you. I dont really think her bf will be there when you arrive.

Dont neg her. If you are at her place, go for it when you have the chance. Unleash the beast within you. Yeah, she will resist, but that is because she is the one in a relationship. It feels more OK to her if she put up a little fight, at least she can silence her conscience with the fact that she just couldnt resist the temptation. its a bit feeling how far you can go, but if she gives you a bit of resistance, just keep on going. Perhaps take a step back, but dont mind the resistance. Keep touching, caressing, keep going for her intimate places. You will know if she really is not up to it. The firm 'no' sounds much different then the LMR one. Just keep going.

The negging thing is just such a situation where playing 'mind games' just aint right. Go for what you want, relentlessly. You dont want to screw her mind, you want to screw that pussy goddammit. You dont overcome LMR by pretending you dont want to fuck her. You wont fuck her if you dont make the first move and keep on moving. Its very doubtful that she will make the first move.

At that moment, you are almost a freaking caveman. You just want to fuck. Dont rape her though. Remember, its a fine line.

I am sorry, Rozedavoice, but i think you advice will get him nowhere except back at the front door.

good luck!

ciao

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@Rozedavoice-Lol,straight to the point.

I get all that.

@LD-True,Im not chasing her.Im doing totally the opposit.

In fact,she's chasing,since she was the one who got my attention today on the street;calling me stranger(lol).

So she basically re-initiated our communication.

Lol,I really doubt her bf will be there like you said LD.

I totally get the LMR concept;it must happen.

Past few times at her home,I went all out aggressive;thinking since I'd laid her a while back,I wont encounter LMR again(lmao).

BTW LD,Im in a LR also,but an opportunity at laying this girl again-I cant pass it up.

Overall,I think she lives for the thrill.

To be honest,Im the cautious-paranoid pussy here.

Well,Im gonna take it slow tonight,meaning play it cool and escalate slowly.

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i understand how you feel, even though you are in a LR. I am in a LR as well, and i can hardly resist the seduction community. Still, i am holding my horses (sort of speak, there is actually only one horse ). The chase gives me thrills enough so far .

Yeah, i think that is a good way to go as well. taking it cool and escalating slowly. Just dont give up on the LMR to soon . You will do alright, i am sure of it.

Let us know, its not that we are curious, but we like to know it all, hah!

good luck to you

ciao!

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Sucker love I always find,
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i wouldn't take it too slowly....

every kiss shes gonna think about her bf every touch, every everything..

im not a fan of girls that cheat.. but if shes gonna, shes gonna anyway...

but the lmr is most likely cuz of the bf not cuz she dont like ya..

so get there... be cool, talk smoothly, slowly..have a drink each... get into a bit of a fun fight and tickle her...pick her up.. toss her on the bed... then just go for the kiss... lay it on.... if she says she has to get up or do something or go to the washroom. let her go and when she comes back grab her again and kiss her up against the wall. bodies close.

instead of going for the hand on the clit over the clothes to get her amped... she will most likely swat your hand away... get your knee in there instead and use your hands behind her ears... she will probably grind your knee on her own... this'll get her more amped up for it... once shes there it shouldnt be too hard.

escalating slowly feels like "love" or like a relationship a lot of times.... she doesnt want two relationships... if she wants to get off with you its gotta "just happen so fast" and be exciting...

if she ever brings up the bf verbally.. just say "shhhh" and kiss again..

let us know what works

@BridgeBurner-You make a good case for not taking it slow.

I guess she doesnt want romance nor LTR vibes since she already had a bf.

So I need to ravish her like a wild many(lol).

The sex vibes and flirting a you'd laid out is exactly how I do it.

Im a master at push-pull,in the sense of grabbing her close,kissing her,then push her off,then tug her again.

Im all for that-that's my game.

We're on same page BridgeBurner.

@LD-Lol,only 1 horse for real to hold.

To be honest Im torn between taking it slow and rapid escalation.

Logistically,I should move swiftly,if it's a case where her bf will be there soon.

So that alone should compel me to move rapidly.

But the 5 or so times I went by her,I was a savage with the escalation,but that only created more LMR & token resistance.

I guess I'll have to calibrate it right.

It's about 6pm in my island,sunet is here,Im about to take flight.

I wont call her,but just go.

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