So i met this girl on Friday and she was interested in me, we flirted for a while exchanged numbers and we were supposed to go out Sunday (we were both busy Saturday). So i called her Saturday evening, asked her if she's busy on Sunday, she said no she doesn't have a schedule, that she's free, but she's got the flu and she doesn't know if she can see me. I said yeah sure, we'll talk later then. She really was getting ill Friday when i met her so for the sake of argument let's say she really is sick. So today's Sunday, should i call her again or not ? Don't want to seem desperate really, and i can't see her next week since i'm taking a trip to California.

No!

You're going to appear needy if you call her every single day.

Text her when you're in California and set up a day 2 then.

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Thanks for the reassurance, i was leaning towards that as well.

my moto is, if you start to lose power early on ease of the pressure, let her come to you, then you need to tell her with out telling her that your busy with your life, facebook is a great way to show that, you can post what ever your doing in status updates and photos,

this has the effect of making her want to be with you if she is interested and if she isn't interested then this has just saved you a load of time trying to pick her up.

and while your getting on with your life you will probably meet other people in the process

hope that helps, David Deangelo also suggests this in interviews with dating guru's, lol honestly im working for david d he's just saved my life a few times that all : )

Yeah, so i haven't called her and she hasn't called me either. I can't stress enough the fact that i said "we'll talk later" as opposed to "i'll/you call you/me". Does that mean that she's not interested enough to call me back or is she expecting me to call her a second time?

Being AFC sucks balls.

Nobody?