So, I'm new to this whole PUA thing, I consider myself to have decent natural game. I'm a senior in high school. Ok, enough about me...my situation:

There's this girl, I couldn't even remember her name until like a week ago, 3 days ago we went to an assembly at school and I told her I was sitting with friends and she included herself and sat next to me. I was big on push-pull by smiling at her and then blocking her out and talking to my friends. Then she stole my hat (I guess in an attempt to gain my attention) So I playfully struggled to get it back when I got it back I grabbed her hand and we held hands, she seemed flattered. I kept doing push-pull then told her I was leaving to go to class ... she didnt want me to go, I still went. But I came back and when the assembly was over we started making out (in a different area of course) ...the next day we made out again (she initiated it both times) but it was more intense, (touching and feeling each other) but I recently found out that she has a boyfriend and I think I'm starting to like her.

What should I do in this situation? ...Do you think her boyfriend is doing something wrong and shes thinking of leaving him soon? Or do you think that she just wants me to be "her little secret"? I'm confused and really don't know what to think. lol she doesn't know that I know that she has a boyfriend.

Hold your horses,

why don't you ask her if she has a boyfriend?

If she says no, go do something together
If she says yes, go do something together.


Chillax and just let this whole situation unwrap itself.

@Vaj-Lol good advise on,"lets go do something"-regardless.

@The Zohan-Like the name,it's 1 of my all-time favorite fliccs.

Anyway,why are you falling for this chicc?

Why not keep it strictly sexual if it leads there.

Why look forward to steal her from her bf?

Why care if she wants to leave her bf for you?

In fact,I would encourage her to stay with her bf.

Keep it simply and stop loosing your head and falling for this chicc.

Have fun and stop secretly hoping she will be with you.

Let her struggle with her bf issues.

Many women are content with just having flings without intention of leaving their bf's.

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Truee thanks bro.
I don't know, I guess it's because she's a tease. So I assume that everything I'm feeling is all sexual anyways, because I didn't get her number until after we kissed the second time. I don't know why I thought so much into this. hahaha
So the conversation should go like this?

Me: (Asking does she have a bf but not too straight foward and serious because that would be awkward -Need ideas)
Her: Yes (assuming)
Me: Oh cool ... So what r u doin this weekend?

That's how the convo should go? lol

1. Just ask her the question man. let her get red in the face. Remember: the pressure is on HER. not on you... You can hangback and chillax and wait for her answer.


2. Assuming she says yes? You don't know. never assume shit.


3. Yes, keep it simple.


4. Start at point 1 again.

Ok, and I only put assuming because I'm not 100% sure that she has a boyfriend but I'm 90% sure cuz her friends bring it up around her sometimes with questions like, "how's your boyfriend?"

But yeah, I'll do that tomorrow though, or later on in the week. I'll post how it goes. Thanks man

The only reason I didn't just want to ask her the question out of the blue is because I don't want to make her feel guilty about it, that might lead to her not talking to me anymore