Hey I need some serious advice. I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at a party (we both go to college) and I seem to want to get to know her more. Only problem is that I literally never see her because she's always studying, and if I do see her it's only if we're both drunk, and I don't want it to be like that.


I do have her added on facebook, and am wondering, what's your guys opinions on sending a message through facebook asking her to hang out and of course acknowledging that it is very gay however I never see her around. The only last resort that I have is waiting til next semester because we're both on break at the moment, but she might meet someone else during this time and that'll be the end of that.

Any advice? Thanks

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"...so it goes"

It seems like you don't have her number. I'd first try to get her digits via fb. Then ask her to chill with you through the phone.

well yeah, i mean, i'll obviously get her phone number too when i ask her to hang out, that is if she doesnt think its retarded

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"...so it goes"

Its not gay at all Ive done it couple of times and its gone good.
The girl i'm with now I just messaged her and asked for her number saying we should hangout sometime. She gave me her digits. Easy