Perhaps this is beyond the scope of this forum, but I'd really appreciate some ideas or possible outcomes to this situation.

HB, her boyfriend, and I share the same friends. HB and I spend a lot of time together as we have a mutual interest in same hobby. Lots of kino between HB and I, and many opportunities to go further.

Boyfriend has high value in friend group and lives with HB. Boyfriend is lazy and holds her back from doing what she wants to do.

Boyfriend has a very bad reputation of borrowing money from friends, but still holds high value.

How would I go about decreasing his value to friends, without being obvious, and possibly focussing around the idea of him pulling HB down and/or money borrowing tendencies.

Any ideas are welcome.

idk man u shuld like put her in a duffelbag or somethin

If you want to go further with her, and you have the kino, IOIs and the opportunities, why bother trying to decrease her boyfriend's value amongst his friends?

~Deebo

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