I asked this girl out on first date that i had k-closed and n-closed
her how it went:

me:You jsut popped on my head.. so HI!!!.. Now stay out of there..;p
her: LOL hiii

me: Haha i just made you check ur phone.. Looks like i've got u in check
her: Oh haha

me: Lol i think my phone misses you... I'm going to xxx mall on Tuesday. I thought it would be good opportunity to meet up. what time is ok with you?
her: Haha umm time doesn't matter.. maybe early afternoon?
(didnt respond for 5 min she sent it again)
me: Ok

Now she sent me after 5 min "can my best friend come??"

WHat do i say quickly please

Doesn't sound like its a big deal that her friend is coming. It just makes it a more relaxed SPAM than if it was just the two of you which could be awkward (for her). I would be easy going and say something along the lines of "yeah sure", because there will likely be other opportunities for you to hang out alone.

Aww how cute, she wants to show you off to her friend

2 reasons why a girl might ask her friend to come
A. She wants a buffer. This means there isn't enough attraction or rapport between you guys. Be more playful to build rapport.
B. She's a manic insecure and needs a friend because she's afraid of awkward moments or not knowing what to say. This means she has low esteem and you should be able to bag her even if you come dressed up as Beetle Juice.
C. She thinks you might be a sex offender. This means you tried to hard to pull off the "jerk" vibe.


About your text, stop using smileys and stop saying "haha" or "lol" so much. People are inclined to do this to come off as less threatening, lighten the mood, and qualify themselves. It's beta behavior, don't feel bad for being overtly masculine. If you're young then this might be more acceptable because you're competing with a lot more betas and a lot less alphas. As you get older, you'll notice a sharp decrease in quirky behavior from a lot of guys, they will be the ones who harvest pussy every night. Either ways, it's better if you cut out the habit.

Also, as a general rule, you should use the 2/3 rule. Always give 2/3 of what you get. you're texts should be shorter, and for every 3 times she starts a texting convo with you, you only start two convos. Conveys your higher social status to her and prevents you from wreaking of desperation. You are always the prize. You only text her more in the beginning to induce the initial attraction phase.

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bring your own friend lol

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Say yes, what's wrong with that. Her friend might be coolbeans.

Oh that's not to say it isn't a hoop, maybe you should make her qualify her friend first? I dunno, I have no text game.

Say her friend can come for sure, turn up with one of your boys and go and have a sick time........bowling, food, shopping whatever.