Heres a little background...

I met this girl couple months ago during a pregame @ a friends house.. at the time she had a bf. I walked in and she instantly caught my eye.. beautiful girl. but whatever, she had a bf so i kinda just stayed away... i was able to get in a little convo nothing special but introduced myself w.e... I find out a couple weeks later things didnt work out with her bf and they split up. We start txting back and forth, like pretty much every day something... some days for a few hours.

Another important point i forgot to mention was the night i met her i sleeped with her friend (now ex-friend)... she didnt know this til about 2 weeks into us starting to talk.. she found out and flipped out.. i had to smooth things over and now were good.

She lives near me but goes to school about 2 hours away from me so we havent had the chance to go out or party at all... she almost done her semester and goign through exams right now and her birthday was yesterday. called her up wished her happy bday everything.. im feeling good about "us"

So heres the deal!!
Shes going out saturday to celebrate with some of her friends... she wants me to come?!

what should i do?
option 1: i go pregame with her and go out
option 2: i pregame with my buddies and when we decide to go downtown leave my friends and meet her at the bar
option 3: (PUA`s advice)

i dont want to come off to strong but i really like this girl and i want to make a good first impression.... what to do, what to do????

I don't know shit about shit, but my feeling is if you start the night out with her, you'll probably end it out with her, too. You have the option of bringing a couple friends with you and meeting up with her later and that's probably good "game" and all, but I think the direct road to paradise is the more correct one. Just meet her early and as isolated as possible, and invite a couple friends if the situation calls for it later.

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31 and still figuring it out.

I agree good game would be to meet her up when you've got your friends with you,

But if you can start drinking at her house then car pool to the bar then youll have to come back to her house at least to get your car and youll probably be a little tipsy so that will be a good enough reason to stay over at her place and not drive your car home, so I would try to create this scenario if you can.

Sounds to me like you should go with Option #1 and work on your Comfort stages (not that you haven't) and make sure it's your decision to "slow it down, we're moving to fast". Review the MM before you go out. Work the plan, you're the man!

doob,
it is much better meeting her at the club or whereever she wants to go with her friends, bring your buddys with you go in introduce your friends to her friends bla bla bla you know what i mean.

then you got the best chances of isolating her because your friends take care of her friends and she is not letting them alone because YOUR friends are the with HER friends so you guys dont need to take care of anyone.

just remember take buddys of your self who are not that kind of crazy that are getting the girls in a dangerous situation.

anyways now go isolate her or tell her "i´m hungry, lets get some food for all of them and meet them later at my house or where ever...then the rest should be clear to you "oh i forgot this at home" stop in front of your house tell her coming with you,(normaly she should come if not just say comon i wanted to show you my guitar or something) not a big deal always remember that stay confident your the leading male she has to follow the things you are telling her...get in kino SE and voila maybe you get layed in that moment or you get kissing her and get the ability of getting layed later.

if you need it more clearly feel free to PM me.

AFC Payman