How do you portray sexual confidence if you are a virgin (at 20) or how do you get to that point where you feel sexually confident?

Say you want to have sex with a chick your age. She has probably slept with a couple of guys a couple oft times right.... so she will be experienced. On the other hand you will not be experienced....

How do you deal with that situation? How do you get into the right frame of mind?

In the movies, they always have the scenario where they get the guy to fuck a prostitute or some guys will say sleep with an unappealing women in real life. however I dont think either of those ideas are any good?

Basically, how does one get them self in the right frame of mind to be or try to be confident in such a scenario?

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In the movies, they always have the scenario where they get the guy to fuck a prostitute or some guys will say sleep with an unappealing women in real life. however I dont think either of those ideas are any good?

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just and awfull idea lol.

mate if you dont see it as a big deal then it wont be a big deal.

read up on some shit , learn how to make her orgasm , hit her g spot etc.

and besides just because your a virgin why does she have to know ? if she asks you about it just tell her the truth , whatever that may be.

if your comfortable with that fact then she'll be comfortable.

o and unless your shit faced your probably gona be nervous regardless of what state of mind your in.

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at 20 most girls are not sexually experienced, very experienced. i had sex with a 22 year old a few weeks ago and she was awful, she has had a couple of boyfriends,

i dont know what your worrying about, most guys your age dont give a shit about satisfying a woman, so they have never had a great fuck.

if u really wanna get good in bed, go for an older woman, she knows u are not gonna be good in bed at 20. whether u have fucked no women or 20.

Hi man.

Indeed, i follow with the most of guys here: dont give a shit if you are virgin. The sexual context is about talking about experiences, it is talking about desires. I would suggest to read up on a few things, especially how to turn women on and tease them (which will be more important then to just read where the fucking G-spot is. WHen the time comes for your first time, you aint gonna find it anyway).

A good sexual context is where you can translate your desires into something that is appealing to women. So dont say: i wanna fuck your pussy so hard there is going to puff whipped cream out of it. When you want to set a sexual frame say something like: I want to kiss you, slowly, from you belly downwards, over your belly... until i kiss your... inner tie. From there on my lips are going down and right then, when you think i am going all the way down, i kiss you belly again.

You know, set the frame like that.

Read up on some techniques. it doesnt matter if you never had the chance yet to use them. Feel confident that you might try something that she will never had tried before, because no other dude cared for all that matter. Its a start and a good one. Better to have an idea about something great, then have lots of thumping experience but no idea of sexuality at all.

good luck!

ciao

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