Yo,

I've had this Girl for two weeks, we've done some foreplay not F-close.

But my old best friend (which I know since we were baby's) found out and he's kinda wannabe Amog. So I brought my Girl to this party from her Friend, and my friend (let's call him Justin, he looks like justin bieber) Was there also.

For some reason I was kinda worried, and 1,5 hours later she called me and she said that she kissed with Justin. I couldn't believe that my friend would to that but on the other hand the idea already crossed my mind.

So the next day I call her, we talk, she's sorry and cries (for some reason I kinda liked that because she hurt me pretty bad), and I kinda found out that she had borderline (which she doesn't believe but is pretty obvious, my mom has it too and she recognizes it).

And from my friends I heard that Justin was to scared to talk (Lol), And I cant really fight him because he is in my class and I see him everyday.


What should I do?

For some reason I wanna fuck that girl as a revenge of some sort, or for my own ego. But she is kind of a slut...


Bye

My response:

to her....I respect you for coming out with the truth and telling me what happened. That was very mature of you. However, I now have trust issues with you and I don't see how this can work without trust, I'm sorry.

to him...thanks for shattering my trust and putting our friendship on the line. I can now see the type of 'friend' you really are. I hope the 2 of you are happy.

Then, I would distance myself from both of them. Let the guilt weight heavy on them for a while, make them pay emotionally for their actions. Once I have felt that they have had enough, i MAY let him work his way back into my good graces. As far as she goes, I wouldn't be able to trust her again.

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What sinful said is good and basic but it's too nice. The sorry part at the end after talking to the girl and all and saying, "I hope you two will be happy together." Whatever happened to aggressiveness and being mean? Being mean about it shows strength. You want to be the type of guy who just came out of jail, you want to be feared (particularly by your friend). When it comes to friends, I don't play around as much. I give them respect, I joke, but when they step on my toes, they get fucked. Your friend just saw you as another pussy who wouldn't do shit if he kissed his girl. There is always a reason why people treat you whether it's on how you look, what your social status is, etc.

Both of those bitches (your gf and your friend) don't really give a shit if you "tell them off" nicely. That's what a pussy would do. I would go up to the guy and point my middle finger (in a gun position) at his chest and say something like, "Who the shit do you think you are. We were friends and now you do this? I can see the type of bitch you are now, you're lucky she's a slut because if she was something special, I'd fuck you up. Dumbasses like you chase after every guy's girl to get a piece of ass." Relaxed tone of voice.

And for the girl, "Don't cry at me like you're some sorry shit. I've seen enough bitches like you and I'm not saying it out of nowhere, it's just the title you deserve. Go find a pussy guy. You had my respect and now you're worst than garbage in front of me. Girls like you get treated badly by guys and never learn. Deuces." You have to say it in a relaxed voice.

It's mean and makes you sound strong. The last part at the end about having respect for her and that guys treat girls like her bad will let her know in the future that you'll be that one guy that actually respected her before she fucked up. Bitches don't feel guilt, feel free to put them DOWN. If your GF was a nice girl, then she wouldn't have kissed your friend in the first place. If you want to fuck her, just say "Come at my place" or something to first try it. After the sex, you can kick her ass out and tell her off. Sluts will come back to guys who treat them like sluts.

Stop trying to act like some mature adult or person who doesn't cuss and all. Anger and being mean are things that are just out there, there is no use to avoid them. The alpha males in animals don't keep everyone in line in a nice way. They bite back.

guessing your at high school? a trully horrible,unethical and immoral part of life.

well done nyseto. your right. the original poster has a right to be pissed and if ever ther was a time to be a mean ass-hole, its now. ther is shit at stake here.....

do you really wanna be seen by all the guys in your social circle as someone they can walk all over and take your future girls? (i have seen it happen, in fact i have done a girl at HS knowing her bf was a pussy so i didnt care that he found out) if you do, then have a cosy little chat and forgive them both, girls will see you as a pussy and so will guys. you'll get less and the ones you do get will be more lkely to cheat on you.

if you want to make sure this never happens again.... waste him. if hes tougher than you take a bat/pole/whatever. noone will defend him cos they know he deserved it. as for her, just keep calling her a slut, whore, skank,strumpet etc every time you see her, again people will know she deserves it. this is what i did at high school and noone crossed the line with any of my girls again and ther were plenty after this happened cos all of a sudden i was 'alpha', i had jus took on this big guy and left him crumpled up. i had never really faught before and i was shit scared, this but it changed my life. i enjoyed the nastiness tbh cos i knew i was in the right, this was me gettin my justice. dont get angry, depressed, hurt, settle the score. dont even say anything to him, walk up and start swinging the punches and kicks. i know you say you been friends for years but that obviously never meant much to him when he was tounging your girl (do you really want to kiss her mouth again?)

i would highly reccomend dating one of her friends. even if you .
dont really like the friend, do it to prove a point. lol

i havnt had to resort to such extremes like this since really but high school is a place where you live and die, fuck or masturbate on your reputation so you must protect it above all else. high school is a place where niceness is seen as weakness and aggression is cool. fucked up i know guys but think bout your HS, i bet it wasnt much different! but thats why the popular girls are bitchy and the popular boys are arrogant dicks or thugs. sad tho.

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couple of things i forgot to mention bout her.....

i used to make a game out of seeing if i could think of something different to call a girl like this every day. it was fun for me and punnished her.

if she tries to get you bk or offers you sex to try an make up for this shit then tell her

'if you were the last woman on earth i would use you as bait to trap a wild animal that id get more pleasure fucking you dirty little aids ridden trout.'

dont use this if she is the most popular girl at school, still be nasty but tone it down a bit.

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I agree, they say violence solves nothing but in this situation people need to know that you're not one to be messed with. If you turn round and act all nicey nicey to either of them then you lose big time - and you'll spend your life paying for it!

I'd simply walk up to him and smack him round the face, no messing, and then tell him why he deserved the punch. End of argument.

As for the girl? Just laugh at her and act as if she's a pathetic piece of shit. Show you don't give a shit and if she begs at you just make a fool of her.

It sounds harsh but I took the nice guy option - 10 years on and i still wish I'd kicked the guys ass...

Think like a lion, what would he do if he saw one of his other pride members fuckin his lioness - he'd tear him to shreds

amen to that adover!

think like a lion, i love it!

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Interesting post guys. I never thought I would see the day when someone would say I was being to nice, lol. Should I be insulted? j/k

But, reading back over my post and considering the environment (high school), the other posts DO make sense.

Hopefully, if you take the 'slap everyone around' route, your friend won't drill your a$$ into the ground because you called him out. His argument could very well be, 'if you were handling your business, she wouldn't have come looking for me'. And hopefully, SHE won't cry wolf to other guys she's friends with (after you are mean) so they can tear you a new a$$ when you're not looking.

I am sure you can take this information and decide the best approach for your situation.

Let us know how it turns out.

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bros before hos man!

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I'm currently a 12th grader. Most guys in high school are pussies. Left and right, wherever you look, you'll see them all around you. And as for the girls..too much talk. People literally treat you by the way you look. I have never met a guy with balls without him looking like he had balls in the first place. You got the pussies that just act like pussies. Then you got the pussies that hang with a lot of girls because of the way they talk (dramatic, sounding all gay to be funny, etc.) Then you got the guy that's just overall cool, not really that tough, but at the same time he doesn't bullshit and doesn't really get involved with girls (an overall good friend to have). The real guy in high school is the one that constantly gets girls and gets left by girls. He tends to be serious/tough looking, possibly muscular, dresses simply without all the jewelry and all the fancy colored clothing, talks calmly/sarcastically, doesn't laugh/smile a lot, is nice at first/flirt, etc.

Now a guy like that which actually laughs a lot, always looks agitated even though he looks tough is what I call a bullshitter. He's not real. He tends to START shit with people in order to have something where he can act tough. These are just people that try to be someone..that "one guy".

And the girls? A bunch of immature little brat drama queens. They will first be nice to you, then talk behind your back, lie to you, back stab you, etc. They're all two-faced. Put them down the moment they give you attitude. They're used to talking a lot of shit on the internet on facebook and such but in real life they act as if a truck hit them head-on.."like OMG!" Their reactions are those of rodents. The moment you send out a signal, they'll take an extreme side of it (This guy is a creep, stalker, etc.) They will avoid the strongest guys and go with the pussies instead against their will and attraction. The hottest girls however who have that mature/mean look to them are the ones who go for the most developed/toughest guys.

In high school it's important to come up with lines to put any person into their place (get them quiet) no matter what they say to you. The mom stuff is bullshit. The witty stuff is a bit better but should be used rarely because it's a trait of smart ass pussies.

The elements you must include in order to put someone into their place:
-Aggressiveness
-foul language
-threats
-maturity
-"boss" body language (shoulders pulled out, staring at their forehead/eyes, pointing at them, etc.)

Example:

Pussy: Get out of here
Me: What are you waiting for, come get me out then
Pussy: Don't try me, I'll fuck you up
Me: Who are you depending on? (I point at them with my middle finger in a gun position with the other fingers partially bent) These teachers? (move finger around in a circle in mid-air) Because you know I wouldn't fight here. Just give me time & location bitch (pointing at wrist)

Girl: You're a loser
Me: You got lucky I even spent a bit of my time with you
Girl: bla bla
Me: Who are you? You're just a drop in the ocean, look at you
Girl: bla bla
Me: Your life is..guys treat you bad because..(this is where you judge her, adds to the maturity level, makes her wonder about it later)
Girl: bla bla
Me: You're just like all the other girls, lame as fuck. Byeee

Girls are the biological pussies here. You can trust a brother more than you can trust a girl in high school.

"girls are biological pussies" - classic lol

while we agree on a lot of aspects of high school, some things have differed somewhat since i was there. or perhaps high school in scotland 8 years ago varies quite substantially from wherever you are.

good at sports, fighting, got money or you can make the girls laugh and talk to us? your in! or if you were best mates with one of the top guys etc.

how you did at this stuff in first couple of years at my HS pretty much defined you for your remaining time there.

with girls it was more just looks that made them popular or not. although yes they could be right wee manipulative wee cows at times, they were usually ok with you if they respected you, although u could never trust them too much. some of the less attractive girls could be very good friends and indeed they proved usefull allies thru those years althoug of course you rarely seen them out of school hours. and certainly ditched them as friends as soon as the high school experience was over. also, some of them were passable for a fuck now and again when none of the better stuff was possible, if they kept it on the QT, some of these perhaps you did/will see now and again after you left the school. lol

in my experience and observations guys lose value when girls are constantly leaving him.

i could break this down into a million much finer points and analyse them all with some very similair and some very different but i put it really plainly (due to lazyness). we should get together on here and make a pamphlet honestly describing how to survive high school. lol

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got say dude.... you come accross as a bit of a mysogonyst (spelling dodgy i think) pal. tottally understandable cos you are probably just being yourself at high school and a lot of the 1st rate girls aint into that. they like all the superficial shit and most date older guys anyway.............

high school years are the most tedious and pathetic years of your life. make the best of it tho. i got by by being everyone who mattereds pal (even if i thought they were a tool), being ok at sports, winning the only fight i ever got in at school and being funny and ok with girls (not great or even really good). this got me laid a fair few times (from age of 15>), had a decent social circle, got drunk, and basically made it bearable to me to wait it out till i left.

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"Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. "
- Giacomo Casanova

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you all sound like a bunch of aggressive mofo's ,

so this is what happened:

I killed him...

just kidding,

He said that he wanted to talk to me, I was like ok... then he said that he was very sorry (pussy) then I hold back my anger and told him that If he would ever make me angry again or interfere with my life He would get his ass kicked (I'm looking forward to that, Finally getting my 'krav maga' skills in practice). So then this gay-ass bitch asks if were are friends again and I told him we could never be friends again. So I know it wasn't spectacular and shit. But he, at least I never have to deal with him again, I'm still on my school and no problems with the police.



The girl on the other hand is feeling so guilty that she is almost depressed. ( ) That is what I hear from here friends. SO yeah I'd fuck her and then dump her... end of the story...


and with the right mindset Highschool isn't that bad...
(thanks to you guys)

You handled it well haha

Trust us, High school is truly something that seems important while you're in it, but once you go off to college it's just a distant memory