When I first met this girl we would talk for fuckinnnn hours about the stupidist shit.. while she was at school, than when she got home she would talk to me on facebook, we hung out like three times.. we still talked than things got real quiet when I talk to her now I get one worded responses and its really angering me.. I have no idea why shes doing this...

Did I get fucking played because I went to a party with her saturday and we got along great we kissed once.. Later on she was kinda drunk and cried about her ex not accepting her and how she was too scared to say she loves him.

Than later on facebook she posts some shit about him..

So I REALLY THINK IT HAS TO DO WITH HIM.....

So you talked did anything else happen?

I mean I have made this mistake with girls you talk talk talk but never escalated past that. They get bored of talking after awhile.

We went to the movies once
We hung out with her friend doing random shit like messing around in walmart.
We went to a party at a friends house, we danced a little, we kissed, we wrestled/ fun fought..The next morning we watched movies, played a video game with her friends I should of cuddled with her but, I was debating if I should and I didnt and I regret it.. I tried to comfort her when she cried about her ex boyfriend the best I could.

This party was just 2 nights ago..

I think she likes me.. I'm just prolly going to ask her close friend if she likes/hates me to get a better response or something..

I brought up the same topics I tried talking to her with, with another girlfriend and other friends and they carry on great.. something is wrong...

Shes back with her ex.. I really feel like the past month was an entire waste... Women never fucking learn from abusive relationships... I don't care anymore lol..

All you can do is learn and move on, similar situation happen to me. I learned from it and never again will I let a girl cry to me about her ex. fuuuck that lol

Um okay so I talk to her she tells me we aren't talking the way we used to causes shes busy doing shit, and things, and out with friends...?

Um okay same for me but, I don't fucking tell people one worded replies, I will tell you straight up im sorry im too busy to talk.

mate stop this talking on the phone for hours bull shit !!!!!

get her out on a date, just you and her , and kino escalte . build up sexual tension and make her want you .

you done well going for and getting the k close in the first place but you should have followed up on it, youve already pointed this out so you know where youve gone wrong.

also if shes now with her ex why dont you just game other women ? or do you really want a relationship wth her.

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I do fucking want her but, the problem is I live far from her no like she lives down the street, its like a 30 minute ride don't sound bad but, I'm going to be in a band with one of her friends lets see how this works

this.

don't EVER be an emotional tampon of a girl you're trying to fuck. that's LJBF zone right there. she bitches and moans about her bf, give her a "well i hope it works out great" and that's it. don't give any more. if she insists on talking, then man the fuck up. tell her straight up look, i dont want anything to do with this. if you insist, on crying and dragging yourself down, your choice. but if you wana have fun and mess around, you know who to run to.

rapport is all good and well, but you need to remember to constantly break it. too much of that and you'll get exactly what it is, too much talking.

and please, for the the love of the community, don't succumb to the dreaded one-itis [/i]

She stopped liking you as her plaything,


either

1. man up and become someone else's plaything.
2. stop being a plaything and actually learn pick up.



Your post is mainly saying

"AWWW MAAAAAN, we did all these things! why doesn't she pay me any attention after I supplicated her to her every need!"

Doing boring shit to amuse her isn't going to do you much for your game.

You didn't build enough attraction, She was still interested in her ex boyfriend. The time she spent with you happened because she needed a self-esteem booster, i e; a rebound.

Now while it sucks to be a rebound, it's not impossible to game a girl correctly just because you ARE a rebound. Sometimes it's inevitable, you'll meet chicks that come off of break ups and you'll have to play rebound guy. But you MUST NOT stay in rebound phase.

I remember a famous saying from SinN I think about pick-up: Think about the predators in the jungle, how do they catch their prey? They don't just sit in the middle of the field with their teeth wide open and wait for their prey to walk in. They try and get as close as possible without setting off any alarms. When their prey finally realizes they are in danger, it's too late. Even if they try running away, they can't.

That's essentially how you play rebound game. You may attract a girl because she has low-esteem, but you IMMEDIATELY switch to Jerk / Alpha mode afterwards to cultivate sexual attraction. She may claim that she's "done with jerks" and looking for a nice guy, never listen to any of this. Don't try and be "different" from her ex and playing nice guy, be BETTER than her ex by being MORE ALPHA.

And finally, I don't think you should blame her ex for being an asshole. Labeling other guys as dicks when they were simply being more Alpha is a feminine social convention used to demonize labels like "jerk" and "asshole" and associate them with masculine behavior. He actually cultivated more attraction in her, it's better if you simply see this in a completely detached way and realize the superiority of Alpha Game than complain over girls liking jerks.

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Well I don't know if I said this but, she said she loved him but, was too afraid to say it.. Like the guy actually proposed to her in-front of his friends multi times and she didn't know how to react... so fuck it really.