I was wondering one night, "How do you disarm a guy?".

I mean, I've never been in a situation where I would need to, but it probably will happen one day, and I'd like to be prepared.
I've read some books, seen some movies. THey all show you how to seduce a woman, but I can't really find anything on how to disarm a guy.
I know I'm asking a pretty broad topic; I would narrow it down, but I wouldn't know how. Any advice would be appreciated.

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"When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome!. True Story." - One of the greatest PUAs ever!

Are you talking about disarming as in a heated situation/guy moving in on your set?

Yep. How to disarm the AMOG.

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befriend the AMOG as best you can without looking like a pussy. an AMOG can be very useful if you have him on your side.

What kind of a situation are we talking about?

Is he trying to come between you and a woman?
I like Matador's "cool man" theory.

ie; amog- "Hey man you look like a pussy in that shirt"
Me- while talkin to a woman, turn and say "cool man", then go back into the conversation.

It works. Your not getting drawn into his petty attempts to immasculate you.

What if I'm gaming this girl in a group. All of a sudden, a guy comes in and he's more "outgoing" than me? Do I just leave and find someone else?

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"When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome!. True Story." - One of the greatest PUAs ever!

Just stay in their knowing the other guy has better social skills and try to learn from the experience (view it as a learning experience don't get all pissed because the guy has better social skills then you stay in there and when you go how right the situation out and either look up amog lines that you could have used to come off socially superior to him or brainstorm your own) then the next time your in this situation you will be a little bit better and the next time after that a little bit better untill one day a guy comes into your set and thirty seconds later is leaving your set because there is no possible way to compete with you. This is why you go out to get practice with tons of different social situations and if you can learn to view them as learning experiences rather than being pissed that they happened, you will be angry less and learn faster.

It could even give you some insight on how to up your own social skills, mabey you could model some of his behaviors to make your own game better.

Classic AMOG line: Guy enters your set, whats up man thank god you showed up these girls are driving me crazy Ill give you a hundred dollars to take them off my hands, just please make sure these girls don't try to bother me the rest of the night

And if he asks for the money just be like Oh I was just kidding I don't have that much but you look really excited to talk to these girls so have fun, making him look like a bitch for being excited to talk to the girls (meaning the girls have higher value than him) that you can't stand being around (meaning the girls have lower value then you). So now your in a situation where you have the highest social value the girls have social value below your and the guy that just came in has social value below theres.

Theres a million ways to amog him this is only one, but its one I enjoy using.