We dated for 2 weeks. Fought like crazy. We broke up. It's been like... over a month since it's been off. She was a hot bitch (hb9) and expected guys to do everything for her. I didn't so that's why she went out with me. She always played "hard to get". But damn, it's been awhile now, while do I still like her? Is it b/c the furthest we went in our relationship was kissing? If I smash her, will she not mean much to me?

EDIT: And I do socialize and stuff with other women. (Not this hot tho lol) I was even in a relationship with another girl while in a relationship with my ex. (The hb9) However, this other girl that I am still seeing is a HB7, HB8 on best days. So yeah, I feel like she's nothing special... Probably b/c she's a HB7/8 and she wasn't nearly as hard to get as my ex. So I don't really have feelings for her.

Move on Puaking.

Easier said than done...Well actually,in your case,it's easy to do(move on)since yall have already separated.

Wait hold up!!

"Only been dating for 2 weeks"!!!?

Technically,she wasnt even your gf!!

Only kissed!!?

Is this joke(lol)?

You're hooked or have a case of ONE'itis because she's playing hard to get.

Move the hell on!!What are you thinking!!?

Lastly,that was not a relationship!!

WTF is 2 weeks?

You ran the girl because you got too needy.

Why didnt you just aim to lay her,then if a relationship comes,well...

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Man I was a dumbass back then. She's still a virgin. I was just focusing on making her really comfy around me. (built like no sexual tension) I even did it to the point where she had her face resting in my freaking lap while I was driving... fuck I'm a dumbass for not escalating. I wanna pop her cherry to be honest with you. What do you think if I just be persistence in trying to fuck her (And hopefully eventually do)? Will I not think she's so special?

Ok,I get why you took it slow on laying her-she's a virgin.

Still no excuse for getting into a fake relationship.

You would definitely think she's super special if you pop the cherry.

Why?

'Cause your inner game isnt up to par.

Any guy who considers a girl his gf within 2 weeks has major inner-game issues.

BTW,I dont sarge virgins 'cause I dont like to go through all the waiting BS & extra-comfort BS.

I only sarge experienced girls so I cannot really advise you on how to proceed.

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I would think she's special if I popped her cherry? I thought the opposite would happen. Maybe I do have inner game issues. I just thought we were bf/gf b/c we specifically said it. But I guess we weren't really... maybe just good friends for a short amount of time.

She would think you're special also.

But that wont prevent her from laying other guys.

Would it prevent you from laying other girls?

I think so and it did.

So work on inner game stuff too.

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Well... I dunno. I had 2 gf's when I was with her, then we broke up, n now it's just one. (I've done stuff with other women while I was with my current gf, just not any relationship shit) Another reason I might've held back instead of laying her was the fact that I'm a virgin too. But that'll change soon according to current gf.

You're obsessed because she's a challenge, and guys hate to fail.

Being the first would make you feel like the big man. But when she finds out it was fake (and they always find out) she's going to feel like a dirty tramp. If you actually care about her, you'll try to get her to save it for marriage.

I'm into women who've already popped it and are willing to experiment.

Virgins are crap in bed because they don't know what to do!!!

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This truly sucks!!!

wait,how are you still a virgin?

Practicing abstenance?

If that's your thing,keep it up.

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Religion and stuff. Family peer pressure not to do ANYTHING with girls, before marriage. But apparently other family members have done stuff, before marriage, so I figured I'll do it too. (Even though that is not a good reason to do so)

Scyth - I think you're exactly on point. Guys do hate to fail. I gotta hit it. I'm not tryna marry her or anything lol. Even if I do care about her, she isn't wifey material. (Plus I'm too young to be thinking about marriage)

if your still a virgin you deffo have to work on inner game issues, and your head is not going to be in the right place til you get laid. i also agreethat fucking virgins is crap and defo not worth the extra time and effort required!

if you werent a virgin you would probably be less hung up on her if you fucked her but if your a virgin too you would probably fall in love with her.

im torn on how to advise you cos you can either;

a- fuck an easy girl, get over the hurdle of losing your virginity and gain more inner game with every girl you sarge

or

b- use some of the stuff on here to get with a girl you really want and eventually fuck her.

with A you will learn much quicker and get more sex fast. but with B you will remember your first time fondly forever cos she was a class act. beautiful, sweet, fun etc. Personally i still smile when i remember my first time. she was smokin hot and a really lovely person too. how old are you? i was 15 when i lost my V-plates. it all depends what you want out of life mate. happy to help with any issues!

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I'm not tryna fall in love, or even like a girl. I rather just do my own thing... so I'ma go with A. I have a gf that wants to fuck me, she said so explicitly. But an ex-player told me for the first time not to do it in my car, rent a cheap hotel. He says I won't be comfy in a car my first time. So yeah, I'ma do her after finals. Then once that's done, I'll go after my ex and this other girl I once liked. (While, in the meantime, gaming women that cross my path)

You sound very young, sorry to say that.

@Apocalyptica-I agree with him sounding real young;like 14-15.

He's a virgin,his current gf a virgin,his ex- a virgn,etc.

Nothing wrong with advising teens but but Im wondering if you're too young to internalize seduction.

@Fifeguy86-Totally agree;virgins arent my thing.

Im totally turned off by the thought of an un-experienced girl.

No blowjobs,no anal,no variable positions,crying,bleeding,stopping...(lmao).

Nah,I have no time for that BS.

I'd rather lay an exprienced granny than a 18 y.o.virgin(lol).

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I'm not young. My current gf isn't a virgin, my ex is. Lets just say I'm under 20. It's just that I use to be religious I guess. And I recently started breaking out.