Okay so met a girl just under three weeks ago, shot a few texts back and forth but I finally said we should do something and she agreed.

Anyway, I am still a little unsure where I stand with this girl considering it took so long to get a day 2. I'm not sure if this is an actually date or whatever but point is I have to do everything right the first time..

Okay so basically this girl is fairly new to the area and has never seen the downtown area during Christmas so I said I would show her. This is my territory, I know a lot about it. So i was thinking walking around downtown looking at different lights.. WOuld walking around then stopping into a cool little bar to have a drink then back on our way be a proper thing to do or just the lights?

This is where I need your help. I guess technically I have never been on a real date before. So I have no clue how to escalate, look for signs, date strategies, etc..

I really need to escalate and show that I am interested so I dont fall into the friendzone fast.

I think your idea is pretty good, seems comfortable, she can get to know you and see something new.

Falling into the LJBFZ can be if you try to much.

I'd say she's agreed to see you, because she wants to, especially after the time it's taken.

My advice would be, go with the plan, concentrate on enjoying yourself, and she will feel the enjoyment from you and enjoy herself too.

Look up IOI's if you do not know enough about them, also, ways to escalate, would be through kino. Have fun, this shows your confidence, and women love it. It makes them think less about what they should do.

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Your plan is good. Walk around, remember to kino by pulling her into you when you're sharing a joke, holding her by the small of the back when directing her attention, and starting off by touching the arm and shoulder.

Make sure to make a lot of good eye contact and smile. Sometimes when I'm walking next to someone I forget to look at their face every so often and start talking looking forward, which can break the connection.

Stop into a couple of places along the way, if you meet at around 4/5, then you can easily transition to a drinks place at like 6/7, then grab a bite, and then head back to yours.

Be fun, playful and flirty. Don't be afraid to make a little fun of her if she does / says something silly. Any opportunity to imply she's hitting on you (in a good way), take it!

Just ASSUME she's meeting you to have sex. Just have that mentality in mind. She wants to fuck you, and now you're just seeing if there's enough of a connection to decide whether you want to sleep with her or not. Display your fun, social, confident personality that you know you have, and have a great time!

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Thanks for the advice. Iv always had problems in the past with expression interest and showing im interested which leads me to the friendzone ALOT

What would be appropriate clothing for an outing like this?

Casual shirt or nice/smart T-shirt, jeans, clean trainers. Casual, and will look good.

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Just what I was thinking.


Also, Anyone have any solid links for kino tips and recognizing ioi's and sexual escalation in date situations?