Ok, so I like to game women. (Well of course. I am part of the community.)
But, there's been this one girl in my chemistry lab class (college). She has been the one woman that I had never had the courage to approach. Like, I was litterally an AFC all over again when I saw her. I mean, I made her laugh, but I never put the moves on her. It was because she's probably the cutest person I've seen all semester, and that she lives with her boyfriend (Living with her boyfriend seems like she was immune to being picked up).
Well a semester's already passed and it's winterbreak break time. I probably won't see her next semester, or so I thought, until she added me on facebook. She asked me if I knew if we had the same chem class this semester (We talked about this once before in class. I didn't know at the time.) There's a chance we might be in the same class again.
So my question is: How do I know if I'm in the friendzone? I'm afraid to be direct or even indirect with her. All I know is that I want to try. The thought that's holding me back is if I'm already in the friend zone.
I don't want to screw anything up. Well, there's really nothing to screw up. We've never hung out before.

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I have the same issue. I have a hard time gaming chicks during the little "free time" I have in class. I dunno, I guess in class... I'm just not comfy. Anyways, if you haven't built any sexual tension, you are in the friend zone.

Assume she's attracted to you, if you're thinking about messing up or if you're self conscious about getting LJBF'd then you'll only make it come true, these mentalities are self-fulfilling.

Create sexual tension by

(a) gaming her while gaming other chicks (Make it known that you are wanted).
(b) giving off a sexual vibe (cocky funny attitude, sexual innuendos etc)
(c) pushing and pulling, negging, giving her a lot of attention and then withdrawing suddenly.

half of the chicks I know who are living with their boyfriends are even easier to game because the attraction in their own relationships is on the decline and they long for excitement and passion. Especially if the boyfriend himself is not an Alpha. More than likely her relationship is now more of an obligation built on routine dinners, routine phone convos, routine texts etc etc, (boring as$ shyt) in which case she WANTS a man to bring her imagination back to constantly tottering on the brinks of ecstasy.

As for gaming in class, I've noticed one thing that works consistently. If you're smart WITHOUT TRYING, you gain social proof immediately. I e; study insanely for a test before hand but walk into the test 5 minutes late and act like you don't care but get a 100 on the test. The older you get, the more attractive being smart becomes. If you give off a "genius" vibe in class, you'll build attraction without even trying. Trust me on this, having social proof increases your success rate IMMENSELY. If a girl KNOWS you are wanted, or a GOOD CATCH (smart, capable, a potential future), then she will be MUCH MORE open to your advances.

In addition, it gives a girl a REASON to talk to you (asking you for help with homework or to study with you). You won't believe the number of girls who WANT to approach guys they have crushes on but simply don't because of operative social conventions. They don't want to seem like THEY are pursuing YOU. It's much easier for them to come to you and ask "hey let's study, I need help" than "hi, I'd like to get to know you better."

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Try to have sex with her. If she gives you the LJBF then you're in the friend zone. If she has sex with you, you might not be in the friend zone.

chief your reply made me luagh...out loud

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Damn Hakuna... You've obviously worked hard at looking smart without even trying After reading your advice I've realized how bad mine is so I'll put it in a quote or something... I'm naturally pretty successful but new to the game
But thanks Hakuna, I learnt from that

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