The thing that pisses me off the most is that I fail to capitalize on warm/hot approaches. When girls give me strong signals of interest, I seem to fall through the cracks. Any tips or general game plans as to what to do when a girl shows interest? I smile and go to comfort, but they lose me along the way, and during the second meeting the previous attraction is gone. Any tips are greatly appreciated. Happy sarging

- Bastian

Okay, the main thing to do is relax. If you get women to hit on you, and you try to small talk them, its like trying to buy something you already own. The girl hit on you, she shows high interest, and by using small talk you're trying to build interest......Don't worry this problem is easily fixed. This might be frightening at first if you have severe approach anxiety, but it shouldn't be too bad. Basically you just want to escalate as soon as possible, and just relax. Let the conversation flow. The main reason why she hit on you is probably because you looked relaxed. You didn't look like you were out to get her or something, you just looked chill. The worst thing you could do is stutter when she talks to you, turn beet red, start sweating, faint on the ground, etc.. Just take a deep breath of air, relax, and use kino...lots of kino. Kino is a very strong attraction builder..IF used properly. If you go at the right pace, she'll think of you as a Cassanova, and if you go too fast, you'll look like a creeper. Just because she's attracted to you, doesn't mean you have it completely in the bag. If a girl came up to you randomly and asked you if you wanted to have sex straight out of the bag, i bet you would get freaked out. That is an example that escalating way too soon is really bad. So just relax, initiate kino, and let the conversation flow naturally. Oh and a side note, talk about feelings, and try to talk and steer the conversation away from logical topics, to more emotional topics. Initiate kino at the right times, and the results will be awesome. Girls treat emotions like drugs, use them properly and girls will practically be falling in your lap. Hope this helps!

I will have to disagree with the last reply.

When she is intrested in you,dont fall for her.She has to prove her worth,otherwise you fall too easy,and you have low value.

You dont start with comfort.Thats a major mistake.You go for attraction,impress her even more,and show quality in you.You are not the first fool she is going to win that easy.

Hot n Cold-Ignore this SHIET TEST!You are who you are,and you will say what you want and have to say.

The point of her being hot n cold is the exact one:When she has hots for you,she gives you the green light (acceptance),when she is cold she turns your back to you.If you fall for it,you convey lower value than her since you are not a chalenge,and you follow exactly what she wants you to follow.You are the leader,not her.

So,ignore it and keep your attraction phase.

If after long time (15 mins) she keeps being cold,ask her with confidence:I noticed you are a bit distant,is there something that bothers you?
She will usaly say "No,i m fine!"
If she does that,and keeps being cold,display high value and uneedyness by being clear:Okay,i wont ask again since i already did.I have some time off and i want to relax.Since something probably bothers you,and dont feel comfortable i think i ll take my leave.

You better get the fuck off the game,than being her puppy toy

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Thanks for the advice guys, but since I'm in college direct isn't the best option. Rakana, you are right about moving too fast, because that is why i usually lose the girl in the end; I come off too strong, however I do not have AA, and have been in the game for 2 years.
Adanos, I started with comfort, because the initial attraction was there, and when I was talking with her, she gave me IoI's. My attraction rests heavily on body language eye contact tonality, etc, pretty much inner game. You can say that I'm a psuedo-natural.
I like the gambit "I noticed you are a bit distant,is there something that bothers you?" Definitely going to put it to good use.
Thanks for the advice guys

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Attraction has nothing to do with anything of these.Thats seduction.
And ofc attraction is way more before than seduction.

In attraction you are natural.Like speaking with your friends,but you convey high value.She want to learn more about you,and consider herself lucky speaking with you,but she doesnt know if you want her,you are a chalenge.

Then goes the comfort,and then the seduction.

Add some reputation points if you dont mind goodfella!Thanks

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Yeah Adanos, I kinda agree with you there, some ways you handle a situation can be better than others. I tend to like to show a little interest on my part, but not really hand it out by the handfuls (A little redundant there). I want to just give them something to go off of, then take it away. Basically its the whole "give a directive, take away attention, she does the directive, and you reward (this might be in the wrong order). I find that most girls if I don't show any interest at first they usually give up, so show a little interest, then take it away. I'm not saying stalk them, then when they look act like you're doing something else, that would be creepy...very creepy. A simple thing to do would be to look into their eyes, and make lots of eye contact, then break it suddenly as a takeaway. Be unpredictable, never make her feel like she has you completely figured out. Offer something small, then take it away. Its kind of like fishing. You put a small bait in, the fish grabs onto it, and you reel the fish up...probably wasn't the best metaphor in the world, but you get the point. If you completely close her off, she might give up, or she might try even harder to get your attention. Theres multiple ways to deal with this, and the best thing to do would be to analyze your situation, and figure out the best plan of action. Sometimes you gotta blow them off completely, and sometimes you gotta give a little something on your part, to make the interaction...well interactive. You can't treat all girls the same way, you gotta change up your game plan in accordance to what you see, however don't judge all books by their covers also. If you see a girl that your first instinct says..."oh my gosh, she is gonna blow me off" and you get too scared to approach, you lose out. She just has that shield up to keep all the "unworthy" guys off of her. So change your game plan, and try not to make assumptions. Hope this helps!