| Well the real problem with texting is its SUPER easy to flake. Did you ever hear the term, "say it to my face"? Texting is the perfect way to avoid that. That said this can also work both ways. She can be icing you out, or she can just be busy. Some things to look at when she texts you to gauge her interest is to see how fast she texts back, and to look at the length of her texts. If she's sending you novels in half a minute, chances are she likes you...or she just has a lot, a real lot to say. That being said, texting is just a small portion of game, meeting up in person is going to have much more of an impact than a handful of words on a screen smaller than her hand. It really depends how your initial interaction with her went. If she thinks you're a fun guy, chances are she will text back (A trick to use: I learned this from Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game, when you put your name in her phone, put (your name), The awesome guy, so when she gets a text, she laughs at the joke and wants to read your message). Anyways, if she doesn't text you back, she could just be busy, so don't fret out and send a million text messages asking why she didn't text back, that would give her the power. I wouldn't suggest sending more than 3 texts if she never responded. Girls also tend to let guys down easy, and send what I like to call pity texts. These consist of usually just an "lol" and shows low interest on her part. What you want to do in that situation is reframe the situation, and say, "I thought you were fun". Anyways I digress, don't fret over the small things, just use texts to arrange dates (another trick..start the text off with "your mission is to meet me at X at X o'clock, this message will self destruct in 30 seconds, this would get her laughing and increase her interest), and make a positive impression in person on the dates, and then text her out of courtesy. PM me if you need any more examples, Hope this helps!!
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