I recently went to Hooters and ultimately got the name of the manager who told me to look her up on Facebook. I used the line, "so Sara, I was thinking about getting another beer, but I have to go. However, I've really enjoyed our conversation, what can we do to pick it up at another time?". She responded by writing her full name down and asked me to look her up on Facebook because it was the easiest way to get a hold of her. I waited till the next day and wrote the following message at about 4:30pm 12/7:


"Hi Sara,

It was nice meeting, and getting to know you last night. Sounds like you might have many exciting adventures to share. I wonder... if our SPAM were to wrestle, who's would win... lol

Have a great time in Hawaii"
(she had told me that she was going to Hawaii for a week, but could meet up when she gets back)

She then responded around 10:30 that evening saying:

"Lol. My new passport is a little weak, but my old one ran out of pages. So count me in for a passport wrestling match if it's tag team."

I then decided not to write back until then next day at around 9:30pm. I wrote the following:

"Ha!! lol. Well if you really feel like you need backup, then I suppose I can let it slide. Just be gentle, that's all I ask. I saw how tough you are with those girls at work." (that was on 12/8 )

I haven't heard from her since, but I figure she's off to Hawaii and I'll just hear from her when she gets back. Also, I should add that I did not send her a friend request, simply a message. I didn't want to seem too needy, I kinda wanted to turn it so she sends me a friend request. Furthermore, I have googled her name and found out that she was in the 2009 Hooters bikini contest. This girl is at least a 9.5, if not 10... the best I've done so far. Also, I haven't even performed any kino yet, but I got tons of IOI's.... she kept coming back to me to continue our conversation and reminding me where we left off. She also asked where I worked and thought I worked for a cool employer. I also gave her the "we'll never work" line and she giggled.

My question is, how should I proceed from here for full closure? Should I send a friend request? Should I just wait for her to respond? I know she's in Hawaii for a week so I'm thinking I should be patient and wait for her to contact me to let me know she's back. What does the community think?

Thanks,

MoRock

Hey there!

I would personally just do what you're doing. (Messaging) You've captured her attention, and she's giving you IOIs. Just do what you're doing until she gets back.
Then when she gets back, go one on one in a coffee shop, or anything really. Since you've gotten the IOIs, use a bunch of kino. If she doesn't reject the kino, then I'd close kiss her. Btw, this is all in the next meeting.

I would think that if you wait longer, she would loose some interest in you.

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Wait, I meant to say Kiss closer her. xD

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Also, after my last message sent to her, do I send another, or wait for her to respond? I know she's in Hawaii for a week, so I don't want to bother her there and appear impatient and needy. If we don't communicate while she's in Hawaii, will she lose interest, and possibly not contact me when she gets back? This appears to be an encountered and external distraction that I need to recover from.

This is a toughy because you waited a while. I mean, you waited a pretty long time.
I would've done something BEFORE she went to Hawaii. Oh well.

SO you sent her a massage and she didn't reply? Well, she IS in Hawaii. Chances of her losing interest in you are really high. There's really nothing you can do about it. I suggest waiting for her to write back. If she doesn't, then a couple days after she gets back, go to Hooters and order a meal. (Don't go right after she gets back.) Ask the waitress if you could speak to the manager. You need to recapture her interest. Your target comes out. Complain about your food. When you complain, make sure to smile so she knows you're joking. Ask her how her trip was. Remember to kino. If she's the overlycofident type, then neg her a little. If not, then keep kinoing and chattin her up. If she's busy, then tell her that you'll meet her for coffee. Don't ask. Tell her. Give her the date and time. If she says she has a boyriend, ignore it. Say, "So it's settled. Coffee at *date and place*. Close with a hug (I prefer a kiss on the cheek.). If she doesn't immediately leave, tell her" You waiting for a tip?" Remember, you ALWAYS need to smile. This makes you seem less like an ass. If said that with a serious face. hehe not good. Anyways, finish eating and leave.

I just told you pretty much what I would do if I was in your situation. I'm not telling you to do exactly what I'd do. Use what I'd do as a model for yourself.

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First of all, good job, you got a HB 9.5 and she is interested in you.

Second, You've already sent her a message which made you assume she's on holiday. So when she reads it, I geuss she'll eventually reply on it. Or else you gotta wait till the weeks over.

Also dont try to focus everything on just her, try meeting anyone else too. Because when you eventually lose her. You'll have nothing left and I dont know about you but I remember when that happened to me, I would fall into a void. Also having other women will also keep her on her toes so she knows she gotta do her best to get your attention.

I'm not saying you should do this, I'm just suggesting it. I'm not a MPUA or anything in that term.

Good luck (: