Carlos Xuma:
Another approach is to run into her with your cart. Hey, I never said you had to be sophisticated. You just accidentally have a head-on collision with her cart. The trick of this maneuver is that you make it appear as if it were her fault.
"Whoah! Ma'am, I'm going to have to ask to see your license and proof of insurance. I think I've got whiplash."

This is what Corlos Xuma says is a good opener. I agree, but I would have no idea what to say after this. How do I transition to... anything else?
What would you say after this?

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1. ask jokingly if shes in a hurry for something? "left the stove on and forget the cans of pasta sauce? hmm"

2. whilst shes replying check for a ring.. hmm??

3. say "oh ok.. so whats for dinner tonight?"

4. "no way i made that last night i love cooking...my shepherds pie could kick your shepherds pies ass... im telling you i make the worlds second best..(my mom makes the best) haha wats your name?" I'm so and so...

5. "well ill let you get back to shopping but uhm.. look you're really friendly. and i wanna talk to you again so gimme your email address *hand phone open to notepad* ask for the number if you wanna after but for number you'll prolli have to make more conversation... so just try and use anythign she says for more material or in desperation

"wow you look like that chick from the OC.... do you watch that?! really? ...eww.. *lol* i had to watch that when i was blah blah blah.. and i hated it blah blah blah.

i dont recommend long pick ups in a grocery store or mall cuz people to want to get on .... keep it light, short and memorable.

i dont pick up in grocery stores but in malls... im assuming the same tactics will work.

WHOA WHOA WHOA!

First off...DO NOT CALL A WOMAN "Ma'am." Call her "Miss."

"Ma'am" has a negative connotation as it usually refers to women of old age.

Secondly, what you would say here is what you would say to anyone. How about a "Hi I'm thin man" or a tease about what she has in her cart.

You can take this concept anywhere. Bump into a girl at a bar and then say hello and tease her about her drink.

What's most important here is that you learn to see an angle, a reason or way, for you to approach the set. You need your angle in, once you are in you just start up conversation.

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Hi man.

Really? This... is a Carlos Xuma opener? I think i used it onces, when i was 7, at my sister. Then once again, after i learned what a whiplash was when i was 8.

i dont really have it for thought through at forehand openers. If you are thinking about an opener and something to say behind, it really seems like you try to hide something, like the fact that you think this girl/woman is hot, attractive.

Why not just address her by saying "hi! I noticed you and i wanted to talk to you."
It really doesnt have to be all that special. It doesnt have to be witty, or cocky funny or showing in one sentence how intelligent and awesome you are. Perhaps the best thing to convey in your "opener" is interest. At least you will find out within the minute if there is mutual interest at that time in that location.

What to say after your opener? Depends on what you want to know . If you wnat to make progress at PUA, you will have to steer away from the canned material. Canned material is great for beginners. They can try it out and get those first positive reactions to build their confidence.

Overcome your fear of being rejected on the spot. Overcome the anxiety of just showing genuine interest. And for this, there is only one good tutor: experience.

lots of luck!

ciao

PS: yeah, i forgot. Get a bit of a feeling of the person in front of you. dont force them to stay in the conversation. If they are in a hurry, they need to be someplace. Other people just cant shut up and would talk till closing time. Get the feeling. When you think they are in a hurry, grab your balls aks to do somehting together later this week.

Awkward you say? you are in a grocery store, its now or never. Think in EMINEM terms: if you got one shot, one... opportunity

ciao again

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