In my school, theres about 6 people that stand out to the rest in my year, i'd like to say im one of them. Although, theres one of us that really does stand out to everyone. He is known by everyone, not just in my school, but in my whole city by other 'popular' people. He has been known by literally everyone and has nearly 2000 friends on Facebook. Ever since i discovered PUA i noticed every bit of body language he did to look like an alpha male and it really did surprise me how well it actually worked. Hes had a lot of the hot chicks after him in my school as well.

I want to take over him, but how the fuck do i do this?

First of all, your better than him, your the alpha male he's below you.
Confidence, believe your better alpha male than him, believe he's below you and you'll act that way and others will notice.

Thats my 2 cents
Good luck

Hmm, i always take this on board, but because were at school, texting game is vital. Sometimes i never text at school, but he texts every day, ill look at his phone sometimes and he'll have 6 texts a missed call and because he has a blackberry about 10 pings. This makes my confidence lack and i question myself 'how am i going to beat him?' I also know a lot of the girls he talks to have fell in love with him badly.

I think i need a major confident boost if anything. But, i'd like to mention he has never added anyone on facebook, he told me that and i take his word for it for several reasons.

I can understand your situation.
Just ignore those things, and think about his bad habits. You have high expectations from him, instead look at his bad side and in your mind he'll eventually drop lower.

Try competing to him, I also have a attractive friend and we both are competing alot with eachother which makes us boost eachother up everytime.

if that wont work, perhaps dont try hangin around him and be an alpha male elsewhere.

It seems to me that worrying about how another acts is a beta trait.

An alpha shouldn't worry about the success of others and view it as a threat.
You can look at his success and appreciate it, don't be jealous or try to "dethrone" him, just co-exist. Who knows, maybe you could be his friend, there isn't always just one ruler of any given situation.

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sometimes i feel i discovered pua for the worst, because i read up on body language and now i always see this guy and he shows 'alpha body langauge' - i mimic him in a way and always try to be the alpha but shit, i can never win im usually the alpha of every over group but when i over think things at the time it all goes down hill.
im probably one of his closest friends, i'd say i got my popularity through him which can sometimes make me lack confidence even more when i think that way haha

You shouldnt be bothered thinking about it, when your with him be at your fullest and just forget that he's popular and think he's even with you. After all, best friends are equal.

If you cant manage that, I'm sorry. But I cant think of another way.

Get rid of the competition.


Jk.


But seriously, I wouldn't stress it. He is always going to be an alpha male. Instead, I would use it to my advantage. You are friends with him, right? He can't have every girl. I hang out with one of my very alpha friends at times. He pull chicks a lot, but he can't handle all of the 3 chicks we're hitting on That's just one way you can take advantage of the situation. Just being good friends with him is social proof enough to get your foot through the door with lots of women.

"Am I nice enough for people to approve me?"

or

"Am I alpha enough for people to approve me?"


2 sides, same coin.