I thought being arrogant / full of yourself is bad... but I read Neil Strauss's ad, and it sounds like he's quite full of himself... saying that he has a marathon tongue, big dick and is hot and pampered and whatnot.. Nothing about this is "funny" so it doesn't sound playful at all.

Someone explain?

Its cocky funny, PUAs use it, women love it.
It’s a combination of being arrogant and funny at the same time, the key is to find the balance, too arrogant and you’re a jerk, too funny and you’re a clown

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

Oh, where is the add too, I wouldn't mind a laugh

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'Nothing is impossible to a willing mind'

It's called "You want to be me."

Ever heard someone say "Women want him. Men want to be him."? I'm sure you would have heard that.

I'm totally full of myself. But why not be? If you are good at something, are you being arrogant or just stating a fact?

The good book itself says "You should not think more highly of yourself than you ought." which basically means you can speak about your good points, as long as they are true.

Also, being a bit arrogant, and having a bit of an ego, will give you more confidence.

My old FB used to say "You're such an arse." but that never stopped her sucking me. It's a dominant thing.

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Day I don't quite know, of Celibacy Challenge

This truly sucks!!!

Cocky funny is about saying shit that is SO over the top cocky that there is no way a human would actually think that way, so any woman with a brain will understand this, and realize you are just being funny.

Like specifically, in the game where I think it's Dave D, who acts as if the waitress is obsessed with him and that's why she keeps coming over.

It's not about being arrogant. It's about pretending to be the most arrogant person imaginable.

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Wow, Thanks guys!

Spread Love, I totally get it now, thanks for clarifying. I would have these mind-battles in my head as to weather or not I'm being too cocky and arrogant, which in turn, woudl make me NOT cocky and arrogant when I dumbed-down my words.

If someone ever says anything about being modest, just turn around and say "It's hard to be modest when you're as great as me."

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Day I don't quite know, of Celibacy Challenge

This truly sucks!!!

This post sums it up pretty well.

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'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries