So i ve been going out with this girl for a month, we kissed 4 times but last night she told me that i'd be the best bf and stuff, but she's hesitant about it...So i told her we can be friends because she said that shes unsure if she likes enough to develop a relationship... What the hell am i supposed to do now?? we still text alot, and she's like we better hangout and stuff. What would you do if you are in my situation? because i do still like her :S

For a wishy washy girl like her, give her an ultimatum (sp?)

Say "either you go out with me or I take my business elsewhere"

I mean, say it nicer than the dickish way I put it, but you get the idea

NOT a good idea.. it's always bad to approach the matter from a logical point of you, the whole point in pick up is EMOTIONAL, female attraction is not logical, it's EMOTIONAL.

an ultimatum will scare her, and if she has just a wee bit of spine she'll tell you to fuck off (not in a dickish way)


what you did was actually good (i.e. you LJBF her not she-you)
now keep the vibe of "we're not sure if we can be together" but keep escalating, kissing making out and all, and then POOOOF it happens... just by sheer attraction and tension you just happened to wake up together, after this heading for a relationtip is much much easier

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Bend her over, give her the best sex of her life, then LJBF her.

She'll be begging for you to be exclusively hers.

But since you asked what I would do, instead of my advice, I would have called an FB on the spot and asked the '4 kisses girl' if she wanted to join in. Then I'd probably say "I'm only exclusive in a relationship. Either you have me and only me, or I have everyone I want....and you."

I'm not always that much of an arse, just most the time.

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Day I don't quite know, of Celibacy Challenge

This truly sucks!!!

you get +1 for correcting something I didn't put enough thought into, thanks

Streetlight is right.
Keep building that sexual tension. When kissing, be the one to pull away first give her that feeling of wanting more.

-Just imagine how a cat behaves.

Massages work miracles. You don't need to be an expert.. just squeeze hard, press down, throw some circular motions in there who cares they love it all.

Massage! What an idea! Can't believe I didn't think of that.

If you can, go on a small course (night school or something) and use the brilliant line "I'm on a course learning to give massages. Is it ok if I practice on you?" they nearly all say yes. "Ok nice one. Lay down." [once they lay down you get some power over them to obey you] "Haha I can't believe I just forgot...sit up again." [at this point you either take her top off or ask her to take it off. Bra has to come off as well!] Then massage!

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Day I don't quite know, of Celibacy Challenge

This truly sucks!!!