Best friend looks better than me and killing my game



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:07 pm 
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Ok, so my best friend looks alot beter than me, I make the girls like me but they like him before even meeting him and it's pissing me off, I still get plenty of girls but they just like him right away. What do you think I could do? I know I have some acne but that shouldn't make them like him you know?? The girls I really game are all over me but when I don't game as much be has EVERYONE


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:10 pm 
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firstly if you think of him as better then you that says that you are lacking in self esteem. if you think your acne is an issue then sort it out go see a dermatologist

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:18 pm 
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use it to your advantage! if hes great looking approach some girls with him. they will instantly start talking to him and make it easy to start a conversation. as soon as you open your mouth just steal them away from him. hes the bait you use to catch girls. just make sure you get into the conversation too and then when they realize he isnt as interesting as they thought you will look great in comparison. just make sure you outshine him in personality. or get a thrid friend who is uglier than you :D


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:37 pm 
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Eeh it's not necicaraly a lack of self esteem, I know I am really good with girls but when we go up to people I get the hotter girl cuz I game her but everyone ELSE likes him, it's not exactly a problem, but I think it's weird that I get the 8s through 10s but he gets alot more girls cuz he has like 6s through 9s. Probably cuz he has lower standards. But I think it's just that I have acne and people notice it that I don't like.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:40 pm 
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Dude what you look like don't matter go on David diangelo and see guy with wheel chair getting super hot girls. therefore you are blessed acne isn't a big of a deal. its ur choice u can be the guy that hates his acne persona or the guy that's confidant who thinks hes got it all persona. Its all about the energy


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:47 pm 
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When I really get talking I have the I have it all attitude. But I get asked who that really hot guy I was with is and what his number is, when I talk I'm amazing. But by looks alone and not having been talked to, I get asked that. I just don't like that. It's not an issue with my game, but that girls who don't know me want him.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 9:53 pm 
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I've had a girl tell me that my buddy is more built.. but i dun care. They sometimes try to make you feel jealous of each other and when you are being reactive(DLV) you are falling into it. if they ask you what's that guy's number be like why don't you go ask him ur self'. or since hes ur buddy u can DHV him and you by telling him that hes ur buddy and be like well he doesn't just give his number to any girl just like that


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My really good friend is a natural and really good looking. I'm maybe average looking and have had to learn every piece of the puzzle in order to successfully interact with women.

The first thing you have to realise is that there will always be a guy who is stronger, better looking, richer, funnier, taller, more interesting, more intelligent and has a bigger dick than you. Always. However, all you can do is try your best to improve the things you can change about yourself to be the best you can, and accept the things you can't change. That's it.

With my friend, I see guys and girls naturally open him because he is confident, attractive and generally a magnetic individual. I have to open sets if I want people to pay attention to me. That's the just the way things are. But you know what? I've ended up with the boring/ugly friend whilst helping him get laid, and he's done the same for me basically the same number of times.

As long as you can hook sets with your personality, humour, intelligence and positive attitude (all things you have control over), then he may get one of the girls based on his looks, but you can get the other because you're a fucking awesome person.

Hating or being jealous of someone because they have something you don't is a pointless waste of energy. Instead, focus on aspects of yourself you can change and do the best to make yourself a great person, and you'll feel more of a sense of achievement because you actually worked to make yourself who you are, whereas a good looking natural was just given it, and doesn't even understand why what they do works!

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 1:30 am 
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He is my best friend, I dhv him all the time and he dies the same for me but doesn't know it. It's nit really a PROBLEM cuz he is like my brother and I help him cuz he won't just talk to a 10 or anything... I JUST FIGURED IT OUT! He could give a shot what people think, so he will just say stuff like beautiful, it nice ass, yeah you in the sweat pants. So it's attractive, I remember that now from.. Speed seduction I believe, that's what I was missing! Thanks, talking about it made me realize that!


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