| Hello everyone
I've read some materials and went through a bootcamp, a while back. Nothing seemed to work. My confidence was pretty low, and I was/am a chronic self-loather. I gave up on finding love. BUT, recently my intuition has kicked in, like super intuition. I can feel warmth from people from quite some distance, if they are interested in me (I believe it is a combination of their intellectual wants/needs and a spiritual aura that comes out of their pure intention). And it helps a lot with asserting which girl likes me or what girl would be a waste of time for both of us. I am not sure how it happened to be, as if another puberty hit me at 25 on a spiritual level. This could be genetic or just a series of steps that I took in my life that led me to an opening of my soul. (don't get me wrong, I am far from a saint)
So with that came happiness and maturity. I am happy and people are really drawn to that and maturity helped me get rid of jealousy, clinginess, and just plain being a horn dog.
So what I am trying to get at is that when you meet a person, be honest with yourself and the person. Be genuine. If you are shy you don't need to try to be loud, as long as you are content with yourself and everything that surrounds you, your presence will be welcomed and sought after. Try to small talk and progress. I guess this type of way is not particularly right for a quickie, but this kind of spiritual mentality doesn't let you waste time either.
And like the title says, you can't make a person like you with all the fancy fireworks if they are not looking for you, they may perhaps be in a very different place in their lives that might not match yours...like the cliche of "trust your heart", just trust your heart.
Some things I gathered from the pua community definitely helped me, but I also traded my innocent self to the world of game (and it is life). And definitely some people get it and some people don't. Most probably I would have never got it on my own, but I also don't see anything wrong with being innocent.."more pussy for me some would say". Learning the hierarchical structure of Alphas and so on made me frustrated because I was trying to be what I am not (Alpha), but now it's all sorted itself out. (here is a joke: try to imagine a room full of Alphas)
Alright, thanks for reading my rant.
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