So, I've meet this girl and we kind of "click". We've talked a couple of times about coming up with something to do togheter. I said "We should do something, bla bla" and she said "Yes, bla bla".

Anyways. I tried spuring something up, but she has been busy so far (I kind of know that she hasen't lied about being busy the two times that I've asked, for sure now)

So.. I need to ask a third time. I really don't have anything to lose. So I'm not just gonna give up and say "fuck her". Should I just get in to a conversation with her and then say "Lets do this"?

And if so. Do you guys think it's too early to ask a girl to come over and watch a movie? When we haven't even had a date. (We have just spent a lot of time togheter in school).

Does "Lets watch a movie at my place" translate in to "Come over and lets fuck" ?

If you get a girl attracted to you it is never to soon to go out somewhere.

IMO you should take her out somewhere before bringing her back to your place. Bring her to the mall for example, and then tell her how you just picked up a great movie and she should come over and watch.

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Well, we have spent about a month togheter, hanging out in school(Until she quit school).

I was thinking about something along those lines as well. We don't really hang out in "malls" that often in Sweden though. I mean, we might go out and do some shopping togheter sure.

Anyways, I was thinking of maybe going out bowling. But at the same time, I want to change our status of hanging out as friends, and push it to the next level.

Hi man!

So, ok, i am going to ask you a couple of questions .

What is it you want? What is it you want with this girl? Be honest here. I am assuming, from what i read, that you want a long term relationship with this girl.

You clearly have something going on here . Do you ever expect that she will make the first move to reach the next level?

I think Jax his advice is pretty good. Go to the mall, go shopping, have fun. But get to know her better, ask questions from which the answer really interests you.

Then if you are sure that it can work out with this girl, its up to you to make that first move. Get her close, kiss her. Or tell her you like her a lot, then kiss her. Or kiss her first and then tell her you like her a lot . Just have the balls to go and reach for what you want.

you dont really need a transition or something or look for the good moment. When you feel like it, go for it .

wish you the best of luck

ciao!

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Well, I'd like to have a long-term relationship with this girl. Mainly cause we have already spent so much time togheter in school. She has talked so much about her life. I feel like I know her pretty good.

I don't think she will take the first step. I think she is the submissive type, as in she likes to follow others and never really take the initiative herself. That's also something I like about her though. I don't know, but it makes her cute

I was thinking of just getting her to go out and do something and do exactly what you said. Either just kiss her, or tell her etc. I mean, I don't have that much to lose anyways. In a worst case scenario, I'll just have to move on.

And thank you!

Excellent. that is a great mindset. You got it. I wish you the best!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Its your way of asking maybe is too threatening or too needy... try to ask her out with friends and claim that ur going anyways and tell her right after u say u wanna come, say if you don't wanna come its still cool either way just thought could pick u up on the way. this makes it sound very not needy i tried it the girl said yes with passion. AND even if you go together and there are no friends just say that something came up and they couldn't make it